a friend or tease?

[splattice]

Sounds like she's loving the attention and wasting your time.

[avach]

i agree and think this girl likes your attention but is not interessted in you romatically as hard as it is. she keeps flirting with you to make sure youll continue to like her and make her feel good about her self. i know alot of those girls and theyre manipulative and alot of them are just straight hoes. theyre still childish and dont think of the people theyre hurting with their actions. be careful and dont let her hurt you. try to detach yourself from her and be cold. she will probably be super nice and flirt with you again but you should remember that she's been playing with your emotions carelessly and that nothing will come off it. im sorry you got caught up in this and i hope youll get over her soon.
good luck

[madiocre]

i guess it was just "food for thought."

but on the bright side it was bit of a chance to practice flirting and you know that you can talk to girls even over the phone its still a step in the right direction.

[gals]

Nov 11, 2010 5:24:56 GMT -5 coolrunner said:

I have a crush on this girl for little over two years. I am not too sure if she is my friend or a tease? At first we saw each other at school yet since I was shy around her so we stopped seeing each other. We ended up texting. When we text it seems like she is in control, she either flirt with me or send a text or two and leave me hanging. She told me she thinks of me as a friend yet she continues to flirt with me. I would ask her to meet up in person yet she replies well see. I took the liberty and called her up and we chatted for a bit and asked her to hang out and she said she wills text me about arrangements and she ended up working on the day she said she was free.

My major concern is how to handle the situation. I told her were just friends and she text me out of the blue flirting with me and I eventually cave since I cannot help since I have a crush on her. It has gotten to the point that we call each other love. I could not help it. I tried ignoring her yet she is persistent and I eventually cave in. I would greatly appreciate some feedback.

Maybe she also likes you but is not sure of herself yet. YOu mentioned that she's quite in control when she texts. There are people who seem confident when they;re not in face to face with others, esp with their object of affection. Maybe she's still testing the waters and making sure of her feelings for you that's why she also pulls away when you want to meet. May take is she's also shy or unsure herself.

I know you're quite frustrated and confused, but maybe you should give her time to assess her real feelings. But don't expect too much either. You'll know the real score when you'd meet at last.

Good luck