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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 3, 2010 1:48:55 GMT -5
I recently had my heart broken by someone I love so deeply. I really feel like we were meant to be together for life but she changed. She found someone else and I was left broken hearted. : /
It hurts me everyday because this girl is everything to me. I can't stop hurting. It hurts so much now that I can't be with her anymore.
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Post by Scotty on Dec 3, 2010 2:44:49 GMT -5
(HUG!) Sorry you're in pain man...I know what that's like.  |
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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 3, 2010 2:52:31 GMT -5
Thank you. She is my first love. I've never had such strong feelings for another person. I don't know what I should be doing and the thought of us not being together anymore is just tearing me apart.
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Post by shyguy20 on Dec 3, 2010 12:43:35 GMT -5
Did you call her at all or did you tell her that you didn't want to break up because you loved her so much.
Hopefully you either she comes back to you or you find someone else. There are plenty of women out there.
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Post by soulelectroluv on Dec 3, 2010 13:00:01 GMT -5
I recently had my heart broken by someone I love so deeply. I really feel like we were meant to be together for life but she changed. She found someone else and I was left broken hearted. : / It hurts me everyday because this girl is everything to me. I can't stop hurting. It hurts so much now that I can't be with her anymore. So sorry that this happened to you. Its hard, but I think you should get out; I don't mean clubs, parties, etc. I mean go for long walks. I know it seems weird but I did this when I was going through this with a guy. I filled my ipod (or whatever musical device you may have)...up with new songs, that I really really liked and just walked everyday or other day, for a few hours. While I walked, I was sad, happy, mad, just thinking about him or random stuff going on in my life, I let my emotions flow...it helped me through my time of healing. If it doesn't help at lease you will have been occupied.  Also be sure to express yourself to someone who will understand, if its not family a really good friend or buddy you can talk to who will be sensitive toward your situation. Do you have any talents? And how long were you two dealing with eachother, what made this girl so special to you? |
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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 3, 2010 13:32:51 GMT -5
Did you call her at all or did you tell her that you didn't want to break up because you loved her so much. Hopefully you either she comes back to you or you find someone else. There are plenty of women out there. Yes I told her how much I really love her and I never wanted to have to leave but she pushed me away. I didn't want to be away from her but she made it clear that she didn't want me near her anymore. So, if she wants me back she's gonna have to talk to me. |
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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 3, 2010 13:36:31 GMT -5
I recently had my heart broken by someone I love so deeply. I really feel like we were meant to be together for life but she changed. She found someone else and I was left broken hearted. : / It hurts me everyday because this girl is everything to me. I can't stop hurting. It hurts so much now that I can't be with her anymore. So sorry that this happened to you. Its hard, but I think you should get out; I don't mean clubs, parties, etc. I mean go for long walks. I know it seems weird but I did this when I was going through this with a guy. I filled my ipod (or whatever musical device you may have)...up with new songs, that I really really liked and just walked everyday or other day, for a few hours. While I walked, I was sad, happy, mad, just thinking about him or random stuff going on in my life, I let my emotions flow...it helped me through my time of healing. If it doesn't help at lease you will have been occupied. Also be sure to express yourself to someone who will understand, if its not family a really good friend or buddy you can talk to who will be sensitive toward your situation. Do you have any talents? And how long were you two dealing with eachother, what made this girl so special to you? Thanks for the advice. She's very special to me. She means more than anything in this world to me. She's my best friend and when I'm with her it just feels so right. She's the only person that I can talk to about anything and share my deepest feelings with. She can make everything bad goes away. |
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Post by soulelectroluv on Dec 4, 2010 3:29:40 GMT -5
So sorry that this happened to you. Its hard, but I think you should get out; I don't mean clubs, parties, etc. I mean go for long walks. I know it seems weird but I did this when I was going through this with a guy. I filled my ipod (or whatever musical device you may have)...up with new songs, that I really really liked and just walked everyday or other day, for a few hours. While I walked, I was sad, happy, mad, just thinking about him or random stuff going on in my life, I let my emotions flow...it helped me through my time of healing. If it doesn't help at lease you will have been occupied. Also be sure to express yourself to someone who will understand, if its not family a really good friend or buddy you can talk to who will be sensitive toward your situation. Do you have any talents? And how long were you two dealing with eachother, what made this girl so special to you? Thanks for the advice. She's very special to me. She means more than anything in this world to me. She's my best friend and when I'm with her it just feels so right. She's the only person that I can talk to about anything and share my deepest feelings with. She can make everything bad goes away. Once agian, so sorry this happened to you sweety. I want you to do me one favor, do not get yourself into any harm because of your broken heart. We can make some really bad decisions when we're hurt, okay? |
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Post by madiocre on Dec 4, 2010 4:00:38 GMT -5
I think soulectroluv has a good idea.
long walks with music are awesome. Its amazing how a bbit of fresh air can help the mind clear and let the emotions flow. If you are not that inclined though i suggest emerge yourself in a hobby or some work as the dust settles so to speak. time will heal so hang in there all the fog will slowly but surely drift away you may not even notice it but slowly it will so just hang onto that.
sorry for all that imagery but my words flow that way when i talk about these topics. and as everyone else said I'm sorry to hear you are broken hearted
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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 5, 2010 21:30:44 GMT -5
Thanks for the advice. She's very special to me. She means more than anything in this world to me. She's my best friend and when I'm with her it just feels so right. She's the only person that I can talk to about anything and share my deepest feelings with. She can make everything bad goes away. Once agian, so sorry this happened to you sweety. I want you to do me one favor, do not get yourself into any harm because of your broken heart. We can make some really bad decisions when we're hurt, okay? I won't harm myself. And I know time will heal the pain. I'm trying to not think about her anymore since she has completely cut contact with me even though we're still friends. I want remain close friends with her but it seems like she doesn't even want me as a friend anymore. Our time together for almost two years doesn't mean anything to her anymore. I'm so sad. : / |
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Post by free2bemyself on Dec 5, 2010 21:34:57 GMT -5
I think soulectroluv has a good idea. long walks with music are awesome. Its amazing how a bbit of fresh air can help the mind clear and let the emotions flow. If you are not that inclined though i suggest emerge yourself in a hobby or some work as the dust settles so to speak. time will heal so hang in there all the fog will slowly but surely drift away you may not even notice it but slowly it will so just hang onto that. sorry for all that imagery but my words flow that way when i talk about these topics. and as everyone else said I'm sorry to hear you are broken hearted Thank you. I will take your advice and take some long walks listening to our love songs and just cry. I will cry every time I feel like crying until I can't cry anymore. That's when I know I've moved on from this. |
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Post by short scout on Dec 9, 2010 9:42:32 GMT -5
This is your first love. Breaking up with your first love is the worst. This will happen to everyone. Best thing to do is get on with your life and distract yourself from thinking about her. Hang out with friends, pursue a hobby, work, or pursue other women. Thinking about her is going to hurt, but once you get your mind off of the breakup, you will not feel so sad. Also from my experience, avoid contact with her. There will be others gfs, but until then avoid her and focus on other things, not this break up. On the other side, get used to breaking up many times until you get married. Then its forever.  |
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Also be sure to express yourself to someone who will understand, if its not family a really good friend or buddy you can talk to who will be sensitive toward your situation.
