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Post by putter65 on May 23, 2011 9:05:54 GMT -5
Going back to work tommorrow after my week off. Hopefully all this gossip about her and the boss has died down.
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Post by putter65 on May 25, 2011 11:07:20 GMT -5
Just got a text from her asking me if I'm okay. She's hardly ever done this, sent me a text first. I've just answered her.
Last time we played golf, I sent her a few texts and facebook messages within a week. She didn't reply to any of them. This time I haven't done a thing for 9 days and she sends me a text.
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Post by putter65 on May 26, 2011 10:01:03 GMT -5
I'm amazed how something good like getting a text from her can turn so bad in such a little time. Yesterday I was quite happy about things. Just worked and there was the usual whispers and gossip. I don't ask, talk or contribute. But I hear things and one woman in particular seemed to saying things to me on purpose. They seemed to be suggesting that the boss is away at this meeting in another town and the woman I like is there and of course he's screwing her.
Whether it's true or not I don't know and I don't really care. I am wondering why she sent a text to me though, it said, 'hope u ok' - Does she just feel pity for me ? Is that why she plays golf with me ?
If she is at some meeting and getting screwed by the boss on a night, would she be sending texts to me ?
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Post by Scotty on May 26, 2011 11:49:57 GMT -5
Whether it's true or not I don't know and I don't really care. Well, apparently you do care, since you've posted several times about it. I know it sucks, but it's just gossip and they probably don't know either if it's true or not. Well, even if she see's you as just a friend, then yeah it would make sense for her to text you and ask you if you are okay. That's what friends do.
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Post by putter65 on May 26, 2011 12:44:14 GMT -5
What I meant was I don't care what she gets upto. I just don't want to hear about it. I would rather not know. I'm not daft, I know she'll have men in her life. It's got nothing to do with me. But I class her as a good friend and all I'm hearing is people talking about her as though she's a whore. So it's not nice.
Like you say, it's probably all crap. Stupid people having nothing better to say.
And yes your right, it was just probably a text asking me how I am.
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Post by putter65 on May 27, 2011 8:11:06 GMT -5
This is such a nightmare !
When she left work in January I thought things would be alot easier. I could forget about her and move on. It's impossible, she gets mentioned everytime I goto work. Sometimes I hear things and think 'they are talking about somebody else' and then I think I'm kidding myself; it's her.
My best friend at work said she had some personel business to sort out this afternoon. She wouldn't say what but said she'll tell me in a couple of months. For some reason I thought she meant the woman I like because they are very good friends. And then I think it could be anything, I'm just been paranoid.
If there's one thing I've learned from this is don't develop feelings for a woman. It's just pain, pain and more pain. I can't turn my feelings off just like that. I feel okay when I'm not working but at work I hate it. I should really leave but jobs are hard to come by and my hours and money are good.
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Post by putter65 on May 27, 2011 14:00:06 GMT -5
Just had a text from her, asking me if I wanted to work in her shop tommorrow morning. I couldn't because I'm working in my shop. We swapped a few texts and wished each other a nice evening.
Thing is she is nice to me, as always been nice to me. She is a good friend. What annoys me so much is all this shit I hear at work, people whispering to each other, slagging her off, saying some awfull things about her. And they know I'm her friend so they walk away from me and whisper to their mates. They laugh and say crude things. I hate them, awfull people !
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Post by putter65 on May 28, 2011 11:11:10 GMT -5
More texts today, asking me to work at her shop tommorrow. Going this time, on my birthday as well !
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Post by missklew on May 28, 2011 17:59:04 GMT -5
What if she really was sleeping with the boss at some point?
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Post by putter65 on May 29, 2011 11:59:08 GMT -5
Doubt it, I think they are just good friends. She doesn't seem the type. I worked with her today. She looked really happy, she's not changed. I love working with her, she is amazing, lovely, charming, brilliant. She got me a card, sang 'happy birthday' to me, bought me loads of food. She also said she wants to play golf on a regular basis.
She did mention the boss, she said she rings him up when she has a problem at work. I think the others call her names because they are jealous. It's just people been bitchy.
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Post by putter65 on Jun 1, 2011 13:44:31 GMT -5
Just seen on facebook, she went and played golf with somebody else. I must admit I'm a bit hurt. I know she has loads of other friends. When I saw her on facebook, I chatted with her and made out like I was pleased she was taking up the game. I am, just that when she's got others to play with, she doesn't really need me. She did say on Sunday that she wanted to play on a regular basis and wanted to play with me before her holidays in 3 weeks time.
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Post by missklew on Jun 2, 2011 6:39:11 GMT -5
Why don't you write a personal ad and get someone to take some nice photos and put up a personal ad on match?
have you looked at the meetup website to see if there are any events in your area?
Seriously all that is going to happen is you are going to hang on to this girl and get hurt. Why do that to yourself?
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Post by putter65 on Jun 2, 2011 10:11:55 GMT -5
Thanks for your concern.
I don't think I'm going to get hurt anymore. I know she doesn't like me in a romantic way. I can deal with that. I don't have any friends at the moment and I think it would be foolish not to keep our friendship alive. Maybe one day I will wake up and she won't mean so much to me.
She did send me this lovely message on facebook saying she loves playing golf, wants to take up the game and knows I will help her improve. It just seems daft to turn her down when I have zero other friends and my social life is dead.
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Post by putter65 on Jun 4, 2011 12:48:59 GMT -5
Another crazy day at the office. More innuedo, smirking, comments. Yet one of her friends talked to me about her and knew all about our golf games together. I told her on Wednesday I had some spare golf clubs, so she could have them. She must have told her friend because she mentioned it today. So in the 3 days since my crush told this woman about the golf clubs I'm giving her. So that's cool !
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Post by Sigh on Jun 4, 2011 13:44:16 GMT -5
I'm curious, is there an age gap between you and her?
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