the truth is, i would still want them. they are my crush, and i don't often crush.. so when i do, it's usually big and pretty serious. but if my crush didn't want me and had his eye on another girl, i wouldn't allow myself to be with him. it just bothers me that i might be second, third, or fourth place in a guy's heart, specifically a guy who i am interested in and who's willing to give me a chance...it just feels like he's only going for me as a rebound. so yeah, i'd toss him.