So I went out to dinner with this girl last tuesday and we had a really good time. As we were leaving, she asked me if I was heading downtown on St. patricks day, and said I should me up with her and some of her friends. Needless to say I wasnt able to make it, becuase on my way up to downtown, I ran over piece of wood on the freeway, and destroyed my tire.
Anyways, Over the last couple of days we have been txting back and forth a little bit. I actually asked if she wanted to get together this week but she said works all nights this week. She is actually an ER doctor. Her residency will be over at the end of the summer so she is unsure of what the future holds for her in that area.
I was just wondering about how I should approach this, I do think she is interested, but I dont know how much? and also with her being so busy with work, I dont want to give that percpetion of a clingy-obsessed guy. At the same time I do not want her to think I am not interested.
Yeah, just ask her out but don't expect too much especially if she's always busy. If you're pursuing someone as busy as that, you have to be patient and not to be expecting too much, or else you'll be impatient and get frustrated.
I asked her if she wanted together last week but I did not hear back from her. So I decided not to txt her for awhile and monday night she txt me apologizing for not responding. We talked for awhile and we are going to meet up for lunch on saturday. She is off but actually on call that day so hopefully she doesnt have to go in.
We actually met up for dinner last nite and I think it went really well. I think we felt really comfortable around each other, we actually shared some desert at the end, and then after dinner we drove around the area sort of sight seeing. We hugged at the end while we were in her car but that was it. To be honest im not the most experienced in this situation so I hope she doesnt think im uninterested. We talked about getting together again thursday. I actually txted her today saying we should go to the science museum. I know she said she like that place and they have some interactive exhibits their. I think it will be a fun way to do something active instead of just dinner. My question I have to make a move here or will she lose interest?
We actually ended up not going out on thursday becuase she had to work. She had told me she had to go in to the hospital that day but txt me apologizing becuase she was not able to make it. We will see!!
You know after that day I have not talk to her for the last two weeks. I actually yesterday txt her just for the hell of it, asking how she was and long time no talk. Sure enough she txt me back asking me how I was. I can honestly say i dont expect a txt back but i guess i am a just a little frustrated. We really did hit off in the beginning, i guess it was not enough though.
Last Edit: May 6, 2011 0:18:01 GMT -5 by cyclopse40
bummer. i'm sorry you're not clicking the way you'd hoped. all you can do is put your interest out there. if people are not as interested as you are, i think it's best to move on to someone who is. who are you going to ask out next?