|
|
Post by peterseter3 on Mar 21, 2011 8:28:07 GMT -5
So i met a Women in online chat and she's older than me, then we shared our skype IDS and started chatting in Skype. I didn't say i wanted her to be my GF but then she started talking about moving to my city and bringing me souvenirs from her city and
i kept saying i don't want a GF, just friends. But she's like crazy.
SO finally i just decided today to BLOCK her. seems rude but i don't have any other solution. If we keep chatting, she'll fall more in love with me and i don't want that.
|
|
|
|
Post by Sweet Pea on Mar 21, 2011 9:27:57 GMT -5
So i met a Women in online chat and she's older than me, then we shared our skype IDS and started chatting in Skype. I didn't say i wanted her to be my GF but then she started talking about moving to my city and bringing me souvenirs from her city and i kept saying i don't want a GF, just friends. But she's like crazy. SO finally i just decided today to BLOCK her. seems rude but i don't have any other solution. If we keep chatting, she'll fall more in love with me and i don't want that. not sure what her age has to do with it, but it seems like you've already found your solution. but hey - way to charm the ladies! you go, boy!  |
|
|
|
Post by cyclopse on Mar 21, 2011 10:24:42 GMT -5
You must have really made an impression on her!! lol
|
|
|
|
Post by Karen on Mar 21, 2011 10:57:03 GMT -5
I'm not sure what her age has to do with it either. But I would think she had to be very crazy indeed, if she was making all these plans without you having done anything to make her think there was a reason to make plans. Even if you repeatedly said you didn't want a gf.  You probably did the right thing in the end to block her, but perhaps in future you will be more careful who you flirt with. |
|
|
|
Post by putter65 on Mar 21, 2011 16:19:50 GMT -5
I had a similar experience with this woman from this other forum. She sent a few private messages so I suggested adding her to my facebook. So I did and she literally bombarded me with messages. Within a few hours she wanted to goto cinema with me and then the next day she was arranging a meeting. I didn't know anything about her, she wouldn't say.
Things got a bit crazy because she was wanting to know where I was when I went for my dinner. It was message after message. Anyway when I got up the next day she had sent about 5 messages before 8am. I sent one back saying I didn't want to chat today. Of course that was it. She deleted me from facebook and even deleted her account.
She came back onto the forum but she is alot more cool with me which I'm glad about to be honest.
It was all too much
|
|
|
|
Post by Sweet Pea on Mar 21, 2011 23:05:26 GMT -5
when you boys get a little more experience with women under your belts (so to speak), maybe you'll learn the gentle art of discouraging admirers without insulting them. i understand that it's a skill some don't acquire naturally, but it is important because sometimes you may misinterpret a woman's interest in you and commit a serious gaffe. when you can turn down a woman so skillfully that she still adores you, then you will have arrived as a man.
|
|
|
|
Post by putter65 on Mar 22, 2011 4:08:14 GMT -5
trouble with my situation I couldn't take her seriously because she hadn't met me yet. How can she claim to like me when all she has seen is words on a screen ?
|
|
|
|
Post by Grayback on Mar 22, 2011 12:33:15 GMT -5
I think one has to be careful on the Internet, there are sometimes strange people ( I mean even stranger than us shy, socially awkward people ;D ) or worse... Always be careful who you give your e-mail adress ( or facebook or skype or whatever else that exists ) at least that's how I see things.
|
|
|
|
Post by Sweet Pea on Mar 22, 2011 23:52:34 GMT -5
I mean even stranger than us shy, socially awkward people ;D is there such a thing? |
|
|
|
Post by Grayback on Mar 23, 2011 12:41:48 GMT -5
I mean even stranger than us shy, socially awkward people ;D is there such a thing? Oh yes, believe it or not, there is ;D |
|
|
|
Post by geekguy on Mar 24, 2011 13:35:54 GMT -5
Age has nothing to do with it, some people are just a liiiiiittle bit crazy, that's all. I don't see any problem with what you did.
|
|
gals
Full Member
Posts: 113
|
Post by gals on Mar 27, 2011 1:47:08 GMT -5
So i met a Women in online chat and she's older than me, then we shared our skype IDS and started chatting in Skype. I didn't say i wanted her to be my GF but then she started talking about moving to my city and bringing me souvenirs from her city and i kept saying i don't want a GF, just friends. But she's like crazy. SO finally i just decided today to BLOCK her. seems rude but i don't have any other solution. If we keep chatting, she'll fall more in love with me and i don't want that. Wow! way to go. But aren't cougars in fashion now? LOL. Obviously you don't like older women than you. But how old is this woman by the way? And you? Kidding aside, you mat least be flattered being showered with attention by this older woman. Anyway, you already did what you think is best for you, so there's really nothing you can do about it. |
|
|
|
Post by peterseter3 on Mar 27, 2011 10:13:41 GMT -5
4 years older.
Guess what? I met another 4 years older again.. Maybe the'rs only old women in that dating site. that's why
|
|
|
|
Post by Scotty on Mar 27, 2011 12:01:32 GMT -5
Dude, four years is nothing.
|
|
|
|
Post by Grayback on Mar 27, 2011 13:20:41 GMT -5
Four years older than you, that's all ? And here I was thinking you were talking about someone at least twenty years older than you  . |
|
.