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Post by peterseter3 on Jun 28, 2011 18:31:34 GMT -5
Should only date unsuccessful women?
Most college educated succeesful women think unsuccessful guys who have never held a job or had a career are losers, so it would be no point in dating.
How would you find unsuccessful women who are just like you?
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Post by Scotty on Jun 28, 2011 18:43:47 GMT -5
In theory the right woman wont care about how sucessful you are, she'll like you for who you are.
But really, instead of concentrating on finding a women, concentrate on improving yourself and getting a job. Then you'll have more confidence to find the right girl for you.
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Post by peterseter3 on Jun 28, 2011 19:23:11 GMT -5
I am trying but i can't because i'm not good at speaking. And companies don't like people who can't speak.
I signed up for speech therapy first appointment today. Le'ts see what she says i have
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Post by Scotty on Jun 28, 2011 19:34:22 GMT -5
I signed up for speech therapy first appointment today. Le'ts see what she says i have Which is what I meant about improving yourself. Concentrate on that first. |
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Post by ghost1990 on Jul 5, 2011 10:47:08 GMT -5
In fact it shouldn't matter, but actually it seem to matter...
I even once met a women, who don't wanted to date me, because of the fact, that I'm a student ... for her, even when I don't talked about my study, I were making her feel unsuccessful and not smart enough...
Actually, the only thing I felt stupid about was, that she actually was thinking that, but well...
Fact is, some women don't care, some care to have a men who is successful and some women even like a men who is not as successful as herself (thats like having an ugly men to look more beautiful... sounds stupid, but some people are this way)
I don't really care, and I hope that I someday find a women who doesn't care as well and simply takes me for who I am.
Btw, not having a job doesn't makes you unsuccessful... but you should try to make success in other ways. You don't need to earn money in order to do something to be pride of, right?
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Post by lostmyself on Jul 15, 2011 8:56:51 GMT -5
To me it doesn't matter what someone does for a job, it's about who they are and if someone is doing a job that they love but it doesn't give them much money, promotion, it's more important to be happy.
As ghost1990 said, concentrate on other interests and other things that will make you feel good about yourself.
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