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Post by casanova2 on Aug 2, 2011 6:27:55 GMT -5
Does anybody really think playing it cool with a woman works.
For example maybe paying a her a compliment or two then drawing back waiting for her to come to you?
My mate reckons its wrong cos that can lead to game playing
It reckons always tell them how you feel.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Aug 2, 2011 7:07:42 GMT -5
Does anybody really think playing it cool with a woman works. For example maybe paying a her a compliment or two then drawing back waiting for her to come to you? My mate reckons its wrong cos that can lead to game playing It reckons always tell them how you feel. when guys 'play it cool', i would prolly just think they weren't interested. i think friendly works well for me. |
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Post by missklew on Aug 2, 2011 8:06:01 GMT -5
Does anybody really think playing it cool with a woman works. For example maybe paying a her a compliment or two then drawing back waiting for her to come to you? My mate reckons its wrong cos that can lead to game playing It reckons always tell them how you feel. no, that only works if she is really really liking you or on really insecure girls. |
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Post by Karen on Aug 2, 2011 8:33:04 GMT -5
If a guy complimented me once or twice and then 'drew back' I would think he just wasn't that interested. Even if I liked him, I wouldn't want to pursue someone who stopped showing signs of interest.
Also I sort of agree with your friend, if you start off 'plotting' to get the girl, your most likely in for a relationship based on mind games, not honest affection.
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Post by casanova2 on Aug 2, 2011 12:15:00 GMT -5
Yeah but how much is texting someone too much?If theres someone you like and you have exhanged should i text everyday?
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Post by Scotty on Aug 2, 2011 14:15:49 GMT -5
Yeah but how much is texting someone too much?If theres someone you like and you have exhanged should i text everyday? That really depends on how long you've been talking and how well you know them. Also depends on whether you think they feel interested in you. |
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Post by dell2541 on Aug 2, 2011 14:20:43 GMT -5
I guess to what degree are you talking about. For example i went out with this girl last thursday. I would say it was our first official date becuase the first time we had never met before. Of course i complimented her on how she looked, we held hands a little bit while bowling, and then at the end of the night we kissed each other on the cheek. She actually leaned in first. I txt her the following day to see if she wanted to go out again later on this week. I havent txt her since saturday becuase she is out of town for a couple of days on vacation, she told me when she came back she would give me call about our plans. So is the lack of txt while shes on vacation a sign she might not interested anymore?
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Post by casanova2 on Aug 3, 2011 1:31:02 GMT -5
Well a particular girl i met online does seem keen we had a 2 hour phone call friday night but yesterday i decided not to text her as i knew she was busy.
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Post by casanova2 on Aug 4, 2011 5:58:12 GMT -5
How about if she gave me her number first ive texted most days since and we had a 2 hour phone call friday night.I don't want to come across as pushy.
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Post by Karen on Aug 4, 2011 9:07:06 GMT -5
How about if she gave me her number first ive texted most days since and we had a 2 hour phone call friday night.I don't want to come across as pushy. I don't think it matters if you text everyday if she is showing the same amount of interest in you. You can always ask her next time you talk if she thinks you are texting excessively. |
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