msmk
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Post by msmk on Oct 8, 2011 4:07:59 GMT -5
Please help me. My shyness makes me feel sad and depressed. It's has been about ten months so far that I noticed him looking at me. I met on almost every weekday evenings while on my way back home. I am so shy and have never had a boyfriend in my life. So, I don't know how to deal with him though I genuinely like him much. One time, he smiled at me but I didn't reply that coz of my nervousness. I used to look at him from distance but keep my head down when I was closer to him. I do really feel regretful of what I have done in the past months and try to collect courage to look at him back and smile at him. But, unfortunately, I met him yesterday and looked at him but he just walked beside me with his head down. Please let me know your opinions and suggestions on what i should do. Does he have no interest in me anymore or test me or take revenge on me? PS: Though I didn't look at him openly, I always showed my interest in him by wearing the same color of his shirts and he and his friends know it.
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Post by skyhint on Oct 12, 2011 1:13:37 GMT -5
I think you just gotta take a deep breath, smile and say "hi, how are you?"
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Post by Deleted on Oct 16, 2011 18:51:16 GMT -5
I agree with skyhint. All you can do is talk to him, even though it's hard.
It sounds like he is shy too.
And if a woman was wearing the same color of shirt as me it's unlikely I would even notice and there isn't a chance I would take it as she is showing interest. The only kind of interest a man is likely to notice is walking up and talking to him.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 17, 2011 16:52:08 GMT -5
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Post by msmk on Oct 19, 2011 1:42:58 GMT -5
Thank you so much for your suggestions I really appreciate them and try to talk to him though it's so difficult for me. @rylak, let me say thanks again for your link and the article. It's really a great article for me. I can learn a lot from that article about different ideas to let a man know about the interest in him. Actually, cultural difference may be one of the reasons of my problem. We are in Thailand. He's a Caucasian and I'm an Asian but not a Thai though I look like a Thai girl a lot. And I do hope that I'm not a victim of Philophobia, fear of love or falling into love. These days, I have been searching for the same stories as mine and unexpectedly found out that the symptoms of Philophobia are much similar to the ones I'm experiencing whenever I come close to him. Anyway, thanks a lot for your replies and try my best to overcome my shyness or Philophobia.
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