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Post by disturbed on Aug 27, 2012 18:50:06 GMT -5
I pretty much fall in love with any woman that gives me the time of day, lol, even if i don't realy fancy her at first, as soon as she smiles at me and says hi, thats it, its not long before i start to fancy her like mad.
I am like this with most women, i dont know if its because i haven't had as much female company in my life as most other blokes, maybe it is.
Just wondering is anybody else like this?
Is it more so shy people that are like this?
Is this normal and anybody can be like this?
I dont find it a problem, i'd like to say its a good thing because i've got more of a choice, it would be great if i wasn't shy, that would mean i could get any girl i want realy wouldn't it, lol ;D
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Post by Karen on Aug 28, 2012 6:08:46 GMT -5
Its great that you don't find it a problem. I agree that it gives you more of a choice.  I am not like this. I've only been attracted to a couple people my entire life. I think I could count them one one hand. |
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Post by Sexy Spork #37 on Aug 28, 2012 10:35:39 GMT -5
^ Ditto, Kaz. I think I've liked three girls in my life, and they all hated me. I don't find this happening very often (the liking girls part - the other part happens far too often).
I think some shy people do want companionship, as do the extroverts. Some find it never happens for them, and some folk, like myself, say "I don't need relationships!" ;D
Everyone's different.
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Post by Karen on Aug 28, 2012 11:40:48 GMT -5
^Yay, I'm not the only one! I think I've only been attracted to about two or three people in my entire life as well.
I think some people never find 'the right one' and they remain bachelors and bachelorettes their entire life, and that's okay. There is a lot of pressure in our society to be part of a couple. But, if you're happy on your own, that's what matters.
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Post by Sigh on Aug 29, 2012 16:42:54 GMT -5
Nope, I've only ever liked a few people my whole life.
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Post by Crashtastic on Sept 7, 2012 13:43:17 GMT -5
I'd say that I'm not attracted to a whole lot of people. I can never seem to find anyone who I want and who wants me in return. The few that I have had feelings for, wanted something else. The last ex wanted someone he doesn't hates at all...he claims he hates everyone...he just hates me less than everyone else. I was pretty damn good to him. God, what is wrong with me being with someone like that. Typing it makes me cringe. I always feel the need to be in a relationship, though. Even when I feel that I shouldn't be in one. I'm a bit codependent. I think thats a pretty good thing that you are open to different people. Sometimes one's expections of others can trap em in a box. No one is perfect...gotta compromise a little or it is likely to wind up single...which isn't a bad thing for everyone. |
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Post by jamesswfc on Sept 16, 2012 8:52:23 GMT -5
I often become infatuated (probably a bit too strong a word, can't think of a better one) with any attractive woman who I even meet and get on with. I've never got the guts to tell them or ask them out though, unless I get their number, then they might get a text message when I'm drunk haha. If I remain friends with them, then the feelings usually go and I just end up seeing them as a friend.
Yes I think it's a 'shy thing'. If we had more experience with women, it wouldn't be such a big thing when we meet one who seems to like us.
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Post by urbanspaceman on Sept 16, 2012 13:58:32 GMT -5
Not very often at all. Of course I look and appreciate certain people but as for fancying.....There has to be something about them, which comes with actually talking to them. A click in sense of humour has done it for me and is normally what turns from thinking 'you're pretty' or 'you're nice' to the next level. And talking to girls has never been a particularly strong suit in the fancying stakes. But what did you expect?! I'm writing this on a shyness board!!!!  |
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Post by Zoe on Sept 20, 2012 9:00:34 GMT -5
Ahh....yes...i am a bit of a sucker for people who treat me nice, but after hitting my head on proverbial brick walls for a while now, i think i learnt to have more self control
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Post by Zoe on Mar 16, 2013 8:54:56 GMT -5
Ahh....yes...i am a bit of a sucker for people who treat me nice, but after hitting my head on proverbial brick walls for a while now, i think i learnt to have more self control 6 months down the track and i'm back to my old habits...ugh...  |
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Post by Astroruss on Mar 26, 2013 18:06:46 GMT -5
Ahh....yes...i am a bit of a sucker for people who treat me nice, but after hitting my head on proverbial brick walls for a while now, i think i learnt to have more self control 6 months down the track and i'm back to my old habits...ugh... You get less picky as you get older. Natural, no problem.  I don't fancy every woman I see, no. But a lot of the ones I've known in school and at work that are around my age, oh yes. |
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Post by ura on Mar 26, 2013 19:38:49 GMT -5
6 months down the track and i'm back to my old habits...ugh... You get less picky as you get older. Natural, no problem. I don't fancy every woman I see, no. But a lot of the ones I've known in school and at work that are around my age, oh yes. I'm the very same, I was very picky (I really shouldn't have been) when I was younger but I think it was due to not knowing many women, now I'm a lot less picky. |
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Post by Sexy Spork #37 on Mar 26, 2013 20:25:28 GMT -5
Feelings and emotions are highly illogical.
The concept of this love baffles and amuses one.
I don't indulge in such behaviour. Fancied a few girls. Had a few fancy me. Ignored those feelings and carried on doing the ironing.
That's my new motto.
Carry on doing the ironing.
Hmm. Anywho...
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Post by Shan-Chan on Apr 17, 2013 3:46:05 GMT -5
That's actually pretty interesting disturbed, but I can't say that I have felt that way. But I am a type of person who is open to talk to almost anyone if they seem interested in me. I do not feel feelings for them right of the geck-go though.
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Post by jwn57030 on Apr 17, 2013 20:42:19 GMT -5
I am pretty much interested in any women who will give me the time of day, but I usually only try talking to women who I have interest in.
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