Post by Sigh on Oct 10, 2012 13:09:22 GMT -5
I don't know what to do right now...
In short, my parents and brother have had a huge bust up (he still lives here at home) and he's avoiding them completely but talking to me... it's putting me right in the middle of the situation, and he's asking me to get stuff for him so he doesn't have to see them; but I know although I'm trying not to cause a bust up between me and him I'm enabling him to avoid fixing this (he was incredibly rude to my parents and my mother won't stop crying and my dad keeps saying he no longer has a son).
I just feel so caught in the middle and I have no idea what to do; curling up in a ball and sobbing until he gets the funds to move out (he won't apologise, I've tried... he just wants to move out ASAP) just is not an option but this atmosphere is doing my anxiety no good whatsoever. There's still a lot of anger on both sides (this happened 2 days ago) and no one is calming nor backing down.
In short, my parents and brother have had a huge bust up (he still lives here at home) and he's avoiding them completely but talking to me... it's putting me right in the middle of the situation, and he's asking me to get stuff for him so he doesn't have to see them; but I know although I'm trying not to cause a bust up between me and him I'm enabling him to avoid fixing this (he was incredibly rude to my parents and my mother won't stop crying and my dad keeps saying he no longer has a son).
I just feel so caught in the middle and I have no idea what to do; curling up in a ball and sobbing until he gets the funds to move out (he won't apologise, I've tried... he just wants to move out ASAP) just is not an option but this atmosphere is doing my anxiety no good whatsoever. There's still a lot of anger on both sides (this happened 2 days ago) and no one is calming nor backing down.
Hopefully soon they might calm down and sort things out. 
