This is my first post. I found this forum by googling shy, even though I am myself more reticent by choice than shy.
I value those men very much, whose behavior is never anything except one of these two alternatives: They either get involved in serious, long-term, monogamous commitment, or they keep completely away from female bodies. Of course, the best are those men, who do this by choice, by respect for women, by lacking strong instinctive urges. But shy men are still much better than uninhibitedly copulating alley dogs ruthlessly abusing women. With shy men there is at least a chance, that their shyness has spared them the desensitization of the alley dogs. With shy men, there is a higher probability, that they are prone and able to appreciate women as persons.
I am looking for a mindmate, and a shy man is very welcome.
My age is 63, and if anybody wants to know more, please visit my blog, which tells more about what I am looking for.