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Post by ura on Sept 11, 2016 16:53:54 GMT -5
hello, First of all, sorry for any bad english ... So I just started school like a week ago and it was a full nightmare, it's a new school and i don't know anybody there but i was thinking "oh i'll find someone the first day that i can stay with during lunch time and all, it will be fine, OH OH HOW F*****G WRONG I WAS. A NIGHTMARE, IT WAS HELL THE WHOLE WEEK BECAUSE I WAS ALONE ALL THE TIME AND I DIDNT TALK TO ANYONE, people from my class tried to talk to me but i have no social skills and so i was probably looking really rude being like that. Now i'm asking myself what the f**k am i gonna do next week and for the whole year ? directly when i wake up in the morning i'm already thinking about how am i gonna deal with lunch time and people at school. Everthing is terrible, I am anxious all the time. What do you think ? by the way i can't stop school i'm like 20 and still in college (thats how you call it ???or it's "high school" ?) and i need my diploma but i can't concentrate on work in this condition. actully i know you can't help me but i'm happy to have say all of this sorry Don't worry about being nervous when you start a new school, if everybody else just started also they will all be in the same position as you. Being nervous is natural, I think the whole ordeal may be overwhelming to you, I was quite nervous when I started university, I was 17 but people were quite friendly. If you're in college or university there might be some societies or clubs you can join and you might make some friends there.
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Post by ura on Sept 2, 2016 11:16:03 GMT -5
I read your story about the doctor billd1 and it was interesting, I get where the doctor was coming from about other people worried about cancer but honestly it wasn't a particularly helpful answer, the answer maybe that he should've given is that some people do indeed grow facial hair at different rates. My friend in secondary school had his first beard at an extremely young age, whereas at 26 I still can only grow a goatee and some facial hair surrounding it. To me I don't mind that much and never have, it's not an issue that annoys me but I suppose a doctor's answer like that wouldn't satisfy me either and he was pretty blunt about it too.
Regarding Social Anxiety I have it and I feel like I've become a lot better at dealing with it. I'm starting to wonder if it's not shyness anymore as much as preferring my own company or simple introversion, I at one point (contrary to most of my life) had been going out so much to various things I just wanted to shut myself off inside. Traditionally I have been quite shy though, I almost accept anxiety as part of my life and try to just manage with it, I can't address a room full of people without panicing but I feel like I'm getting by.
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Post by ura on Sept 1, 2016 15:58:45 GMT -5
What's an SA?
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Post by ura on Aug 30, 2016 19:03:57 GMT -5
Suicide Squad - I suppose for what it set out to be it was quite good, I wasn't expecting brilliance and it felt like they added a few too many characters to this film overall it was enjoyable.
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Post by ura on Aug 26, 2016 6:16:13 GMT -5
This place doesn't so seem dead in the past few days.
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Post by ura on Aug 26, 2016 6:12:24 GMT -5
I'm a lot less shy and anxious than I was several years ago, I'm not exactly a very confident person who throws themselves into the front of the group but I do have many more friends now and I have done things that years ago would've terrified me.
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Post by ura on Aug 22, 2016 10:57:58 GMT -5
Welcome to SU, this place is very inactive.
Nice Watamote avatar.
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Post by ura on Aug 6, 2016 12:21:38 GMT -5
I feel that as shy people, we sometime overthink a fair bit of the interactions we have with others everyday. Good job for actually getting out these and talking with other people. It ain't easy That's very, very true.
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Post by ura on Jul 9, 2016 20:53:57 GMT -5
I don't like the mistrust of police forces either, I have a fairly positive opinion of the police force, I do think the stereotype of the police officer who throw their weight around is true on the whole they are good and trustworthy people. I'm not American though so I don't have an insiders view on it but it seems like a lot of these shootings are portrayed heavily in one way by the media in order to portray it a certain way.
I think mistrust of the police will only lead to worse things.
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Post by ura on Jun 26, 2016 12:28:17 GMT -5
Welcome back.
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Post by ura on Jun 8, 2016 5:56:06 GMT -5
Simply due to the number of times I've played this game, Avalon. What about yourself?
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Post by ura on Jun 6, 2016 20:15:56 GMT -5
What are those on the top right corner of the particular video? board games? Yes, they are! Random games such as Settlers of Catan, Carcassonne, Tsuro but there were 2 box set of Horrible History and Horrible Science books as well. How are you? I'm good. Tsuro & Catan are pretty good games, I've gotten into board games a bit this past year so it's not to someone represent!!
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Post by ura on Jun 5, 2016 18:21:08 GMT -5
What are those on the top right corner of the particular video? board games?
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Post by ura on Jun 2, 2016 18:22:59 GMT -5
Oh, there's a sequel to Red Dead planned, I am very hype for that, what a fantastic first game to follow on from.
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Post by ura on Jun 2, 2016 18:20:22 GMT -5
Minecraft was really involving for me, I couldn't play it for a little amount of time, I had to pour hours upon hours into it when I first got it. I haven't played it in nearly four years however I found other games like Rust scratch that survival itch just a little better.
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