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Post by madiocre on Aug 24, 2009 1:24:27 GMT -5
i met my nice guy at a mexicanna party if that helps any .
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Post by Tal on Sept 1, 2009 16:23:28 GMT -5
I met a nice guy in my mirror  |
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Post by Sigh on Sept 1, 2009 17:38:38 GMT -5
I met a nice guy in my mirror Did he look familiar? |
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Post by shycwgirl on Sept 23, 2009 18:50:07 GMT -5
^ < ha ha culdnt ressist Scottie  ;D |
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Post by ericisme on May 24, 2010 15:07:36 GMT -5
Actual nice guys? Here on the internet.
Guys on this site are more likely to be alone, depressed, etc. So then they're not as confident, confident guys are assholes. They're the preppy or jocky guys that can tell of the girls that aren't as pretty as the preppy ones. So depressed and shy guys are sometimes nice. I'm both, and desperate, sooo if any girls wanna talk to a 19 year old male, just message me. =D
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Post by BmxGirl2000 on May 26, 2010 14:35:05 GMT -5
i thought i met a "nice guy" from the internet lol. but no such "luck". ha! and he was a guy that considered himself one of those "nice guys that finish last/can't get the girl" type guy, like perhaps some on here may feel that way at times. well turns out that wasn't the case. i didn't see it in the beginning... but it turned out that he was more like the kind of guy some guys think is the "bad boy" in a sense. kind of reminded me of another bf i had. i guess i must be attracted to this type. except that the other one was in a way more attentive to me: he wrote me little notes and put them in my mailbox at my mom's apartment, lol. he even wrote a song when we were going together. he played bass guitar. he was somewhat older than me late 20s. he even considered one of the radio songs at the time "our song": that was so sweet of him! but he was selfish in other ways that i could not as his girlfriend understand and so we ended up parting as friends a few months later and last i heard he had gotten married. I'm saying I guess that I seem to "fall for" guys that are more selfish in personality or something like that. i mean i know we're all "selfish" to one degree or another...it's just i seem to and i don't know why...have an attraction toward this kind of guy. maybe i sense he's unavailable whereas the nice guys i've "gone steady with" were always there i know it makes probably not much sense. maybe i feel unconsciously that i'm not going to get "smothered" by the not-so-nice guy(s)...that's all i can figure out...so far. But back to "latest guy"...ah where did it go wrong? he had no time for me for one thing. they never seem to have "any time" for their girlfriends - why is that? i believe it is if not the first sign, then certainly one of the main signs, that a relationship is going down the tubes. i was available for him....always. maybe that's where i made my mistake? but i thought when you're in love that's what you do, you make time for your special someone. maybe i "smothered" him lol. but one time he did tell me that i (his words) "give [him] his space when he needs it"]...and yet i still lost him  . well im the "nice dependable girl" loyal, shy  , agreeable, passive, not-wanting-trouble kind...probably "too boring" for him. so this geek would like to return to pre-pubescent times...in between studies of course lol. my pre-pubescent times consisted of "tomboyish behavior", bike riding, comic reading, things like that. wish i had a bmx and the size to match it lol. wish i were the size i was at 12 then maybe i could do those wheelie pops, etc and other bmx tricks easier. well i was only 90 to 95 pounds then lol. i guess i'll just have to look for a bmx site and "just daydream". dream about days not so long ago where bikes and comics and gobs of gooey ice-cream and brownies prevailed and my bod took the latter away without too much visual consequence ha. yes i see it i see what "could come about" i see it on the horizon: now i just need the strength not to go the route that my pensive thoughts are conjuring up. oh to be 95 pounds again. society is not so accepting of a girl bmxer i don't imagine, esp. since i've "filled out" quite a bit since pre-puberty. there, i found a board maybe i can dream in there... www.vitalbmx.com/forums/mainand some comics websites... comics.com/www.dccomics.com/dccomics/marvel.com/yeah i was a real comic geek lol. spiderman is prob my favorite superhero one. guess i'm just gonna have to forget about guys  . it's a shame too cuz i think i could have made someone happy lol. or at least had fun trying. |
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Post by ericisme on May 28, 2010 0:13:13 GMT -5
i thought i met a "nice guy" from the internet lol. but no such "luck". ha! and he was a guy that considered himself one of those "nice guys that finish last/can't get the girl" type guy, like perhaps some on here may feel that way at times. well turns out that wasn't the case. i didn't see it in the beginning... but it turned out that he was more like the kind of guy some guys think is the "bad boy" in a sense. kind of reminded me of another bf i had. i guess i must be attracted to this type. except that the other one was in a way more attentive to me: he wrote me little notes and put them in my mailbox at my mom's apartment, lol. he even wrote a song when we were going together. he played bass guitar. he was somewhat older than me late 20s. he even considered one of the radio songs at the time "our song": that was so sweet of him! but he was selfish in other ways that i could not as his girlfriend understand and so we ended up parting as friends a few months later and last i heard he had gotten married. I'm saying I guess that I seem to "fall for" guys that are more selfish in personality or something like that. i mean i know we're all "selfish" to one degree or another...it's just i seem to and i don't know why...have an attraction toward this kind of guy. maybe i sense he's unavailable whereas the nice guys i've "gone steady with" were always there i know it makes probably not much sense. maybe i feel unconsciously that i'm not going to get "smothered" by the not-so-nice guy(s)...that's all i can figure out...so far. But back to "latest guy"...ah where did it go wrong? he had no time for me for one thing. they never seem to have "any time" for their girlfriends - why is that? i believe it is if not the first sign, then certainly one of the main signs, that a relationship is going down the tubes. i was available for him....always. maybe that's where i made my mistake? but i thought when you're in love that's what you do, you make time for your special someone. maybe i "smothered" him lol. but one time he did tell me that i (his words) "give [him] his space when he needs it"]...and yet i still lost him . well im the "nice dependable girl" loyal, shy , agreeable, passive, not-wanting-trouble kind...probably "too boring" for him. so this geek would like to return to pre-pubescent times...in between studies of course lol. my pre-pubescent times consisted of "tomboyish behavior", bike riding, comic reading, things like that. wish i had a bmx and the size to match it lol. wish i were the size i was at 12 then maybe i could do those wheelie pops, etc and other bmx tricks easier. well i was only 90 to 95 pounds then lol. i guess i'll just have to look for a bmx site and "just daydream". dream about days not so long ago where bikes and comics and gobs of gooey ice-cream and brownies prevailed and my bod took the latter away without too much visual consequence ha. yes i see it i see what "could come about" i see it on the horizon: now i just need the strength not to go the route that my pensive thoughts are conjuring up. oh to be 95 pounds again. society is not so accepting of a girl bmxer i don't imagine, esp. since i've "filled out" quite a bit since pre-puberty. there, i found a board maybe i can dream in there... www.vitalbmx.com/forums/mainand some comics websites... comics.com/www.dccomics.com/dccomics/marvel.com/yeah i was a real comic geek lol. spiderman is prob my favorite superhero one. guess i'm just gonna have to forget about guys . it's a shame too cuz i think i could have made someone happy lol. or at least had fun trying. Yesss, you must be careful on the internettttt. Just try talkin to them for a few months before ever meeting, if they stick around and act nice the whole time, or most the time, then he should be a keeper. |
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Post by timarends on Aug 29, 2010 22:07:14 GMT -5
Online is so different than meeting someone in real life. The person could be 1000 miles away. Or they could just be looking for someone for a one night stand. Sometimes when you meet them in person they don't seem anything like what they seem like online. Sometimes you seem to hit it off great with someone online but you just don't seem to hit it off once you meet them in person. It's strange... I guess shyness plays a role in the matter too.
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Post by shyguy20 on Jan 30, 2011 9:10:12 GMT -5
Hello ladies. . .I'm here. . . lol
I'm on pof. . .I'm going to get off of there. . .seems like no one really wants to date me. Either that or I'm going to try to just make friends on there.
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Post by peterseter3 on Jan 30, 2011 11:12:31 GMT -5
you can meet me outside walking. except girls don't want to meet me. I'm trying but they dont even look at me.
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Post by brightestdark on May 13, 2011 14:56:43 GMT -5
Actual nice guys? Here on the internet. Guys on this site are more likely to be alone, depressed, etc. So then they're not as confident, confident guys are assholes. They're the preppy or jocky guys that can tell of the girls that aren't as pretty as the preppy ones. So depressed and shy guys are sometimes nice. I'm both, and desperate, sooo if any girls wanna talk to a 19 year old male, just message me. =D I think telling others that you are depressed is not attractive and probably won't win girls over. Even if you are depressed it's better to not point it out. I don't think many girls would want to date a guy who admits to being depressed. You don't need to act confident, but pointing out that you're depressed is also not an attractive trait. I hope you feel less depressed soon. Be happy that you're one of the good guys, a nice shy guy. |
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Post by allisonn on Jun 22, 2011 8:10:37 GMT -5
I found my nice guy by meeting him through a friend I went to high school with (they were roommates). My theory is you can meet a nice guy anywhere you can meet a not-so-nice guy... it's using your instinct to weed out the ones worth pursuing.  Try to introduce yourself to different people and keep an open mind. |
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Post by ghost1990 on Jul 5, 2011 10:36:08 GMT -5
You can meet nice guys anywhere, but you sure need to "meet" them.
You can get into a conversation and flirt with a guy in a club, a library, next door, in the local swimming pool, at the supermarket, at work/class or online, but in order to find out if she is nice or not, you need to talk with them. Why seeking them and not letting them seek you? Well, nice guys are either shy or they most likely already have a relationship (or they are nice, but far away from nice looking.) So it always is better to find instead of being found (since you can still be found while searching)
Where you meet is not important, but even if shyness makes it hard, you need to meet in order to get to know guys. Not all will be nice, but some will be and some will be the right.
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Post by geekguy on Jul 7, 2011 0:35:15 GMT -5
some of us work in libraries and book-stores :3 (High five Scotty  ) |
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Post by Scotty on Jul 7, 2011 11:03:27 GMT -5
some of us work in libraries and book-stores :3 (High five Scotty ) (High five! ;D ) |
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, agreeable, passive, not-wanting-trouble kind...probably "too boring" for him.
. it's a shame too cuz i think i could have made someone happy lol. or at least had fun trying.
Try to introduce yourself to different people and keep an open mind.
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