can a gal tell -rookie from experience

[ty78]

annaa said:

Do you think there's any truth to that?
Wouldn't it be a bit different with a women to masturbation? I'm just saying..

Yes its different but it gets you used to the feeling kind of. I doubt a guy would last 2 minutes on his first time without doing that and it would definitely be noticeable.

[airburst]

Even if the guy can't last very long his first time, he can do things like go slow/pace himself, let the girl be on top, take breaks, or have oral sex. And I've heard that even experienced guys can't last very long unless they pace themselves.

[Sweet Pea]

airburst said:

Even if the guy can't last very long his first time, he can do things like go slow/pace himself, let the girl be on top, take breaks, or have oral sex. And I've heard that even experienced guys can't last very long unless they pace themselves.

true. i think people who are inexperienced blame too many things on their inexperience in general. experience is a good thing though, it increases your competence and your confidence.

[annaa]

airburst said:

Even if the guy can't last very long his first time, he can do things like go slow/pace himself, let the girl be on top, take breaks, or have oral sex. And I've heard that even experienced guys can't last very long unless they pace themselves.

Absolutely!!
I don't think the amount of experience someone has correlates with how long they can last. Anyway, who's to say the girl doesn't come first?

[madiocre]

well honestly if you cant admit to her that you are inexperienced ,then a good question would be, do you think you are comfortable enough with her to be doing it ? Wouldnt it be better to be seen as inexperienced and learning or just plain bad .If she knows you are inexperienced then shes more likely to give you pointers . With kissing some people are naturals some not so much but it can be learnt and really with all this stuff it varies from person to person anyway person anyway so experience only really has a little effect anyway.

[lennythegiant]

I've heard from some people that having experience is important, and then I've heard that if a girl really likes someone they won't care. My conclusion: I guess it's different strokes, some girls might be less picky than others?

I've been told by friends to look into prostitutes if I want to gain experience, but I'm pretty sure they are pulling my leg. If not, then I'm not taking their suggestion seriously anyway. Getting experience that way is going to be expensive, and it isn't like the prostitute is going to give you a report card. Probably will give you the clap or something of that nature instead.

[MrNice]

I've heard from some people that having experience is important

inexperienced with what?
the girl doesn't care whether you have experience or not
she cares about how you make her feel
if you are nervous and uncomfortable because you lack experience you will make her feel the same way too in which case it matters but indirectly
but if you don't care she won't care either

[carboncopy]

lennythegiant said:

I've heard from some people that having experience is important, and then I've heard that if a girl really likes someone they won't care. My conclusion: I guess it's different strokes, some girls might be less picky than others?

I've been told by friends to look into prostitutes if I want to gain experience, but I'm pretty sure they are pulling my leg. If not, then I'm not taking their suggestion seriously anyway. Getting experience that way is going to be expensive, and it isn't like the prostitute is going to give you a report card. Probably will give you the clap or something of that nature instead.

Sex is really easy. I went through my first time a few years ago without any awkwardness. I even appeared savvy to an extent. There really isn't much to having technically proper sex, it's easier than handling chopsticks. Just trust your instincts combined with common sense and you'll do fine.