joe45
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Post by joe45 on Jan 26, 2006 13:35:27 GMT -5
can a chix even tell if a guy is a rookie-never been with a gal-kisses, sex.... or a guy that has had gfs before. i mean its not like kissing and holding hands and all is like a hard task to master-uh just do it. i mean u can learn a lot of it by watching movies be it romantic or porn stuff. i really doubt a gal can tell-unless u tell em straight out.
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Post by pansy on Jan 26, 2006 13:56:01 GMT -5
can a chix even tell if a guy is a rookie-never been with a gal-kisses, sex.... or a guy that has had gfs before. i mean its not like kissing and holding hands and all is like a hard task to master-uh just do it. i mean u can learn a lot of it by watching movies be it romantic or porn stuff. i really doubt a gal can tell-unless u tell em straight out. you have a point...besides, alot of people are really lousy lovers after alot of experience...so the amount of experience is hardly the most important thing. |
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Post by griffins on Feb 5, 2006 13:02:29 GMT -5
yea...i wanna know what other people think? Makes me nervous...when I get to the part of the date that I feel like I should kiss her because I don't know when or how to do it. I keep thinking that I won't know what I'm doing and she'll think I'm pathetic... www.datingdisappointments.com |
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Post by Bodhi on Feb 5, 2006 13:23:12 GMT -5
yea...i wanna know what other people think? Makes me nervous...when I get to the part of the date that I feel like I should kiss her because I don't know when or how to do it. I keep thinking that I won't know what I'm doing and she'll think I'm pathetic... www.datingdisappointments.comI'm in the same boat, very afriad the girl will know I'm inexperienced and think I'm really strange or pathetic. I also would love to hear what people who have gone through it thoughts are.  |
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Post by littledarling on Feb 5, 2006 14:58:15 GMT -5
I've kind of dealt with something similar. People make the lack of experience catch-22 out to be WAAAYY much a bigger deal than it actually is. I'm absolutely convinced if a girl loves you, she's really not going to care how much dating/sex experience you have. She might even think it's sweet and be happy that she doesn't have to worry about STDs or such crap.
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Post by littledarling on Feb 5, 2006 14:59:30 GMT -5
Oh, and no, I doubt he/she can tell for sure, but you should probably tell her anyway for the first time you are having sex. Some of it is experience, some of it is instinct/the relationship and interaction between the two.
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Post by lonelyheart on Feb 5, 2006 20:23:28 GMT -5
Yes, they can tell.
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Post by nats on Feb 5, 2006 20:32:03 GMT -5
probably sex wise a girl could tell. But i don't think so much from hand holding and all that, cause nerves can make this akward, especially if a guy is shy.
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Post by MrNice on Feb 7, 2006 1:15:59 GMT -5
she can't tell if you are the one making the moves
as long as you do that the
worst case she will assume you are a bad kisser/bad at sex/etc...
don't let it bother you and don't tell her anything about your past experiences - if she asks just make jokes, be mysterious - make it exciting
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Post by skyhint on Feb 9, 2006 22:38:35 GMT -5
Any one can learn. She will be patient I'm sure
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Post by griffins on Feb 16, 2006 0:23:22 GMT -5
Any one can learn. She will be patient I'm sure I think the girl will be patient with you if she's fallen for you and in love with you. But if its the first date or two, she'll cut you loose. Thats been my experience. Catch 22, can't gain experience without doing it, can't do it without experience. And such is life. www.datingdisappointments.com/forum/ |
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Post by B on Feb 19, 2006 0:23:38 GMT -5
They know. At least in my experience, she knew. I did irreparable damage to her belly button. Wish my parents had just let me go to those sex ed classes in grade 6 so I would have had a better idea of where to put it.  |
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Feb 19, 2006 0:39:01 GMT -5
They know. At least in my experience, she knew. I did irreparable damage to her belly button. Wish my parents had just let me go to those sex ed classes in grade 6 so I would have had a better idea of where to put it. I hope you are joking! There is a book called sex for dummies. ;D |
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Post by reddragon on Feb 19, 2006 1:02:00 GMT -5
They know. At least in my experience, she knew. I did irreparable damage to her belly button. Wish my parents had just let me go to those sex ed classes in grade 6 so I would have had a better idea of where to put it. I hope you are joking! There is a book called sex for dummies. ;D I hope he is joking too. But anyway answer the question as a female can you tell? ?? |
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Feb 19, 2006 1:43:33 GMT -5
I hope he is joking too. But anyway answer the question as a female can you tell? ?? Yes, I would be able to tell and I would hope they would tell me before hand. |
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