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Post by gaz on Oct 2, 2007 12:21:10 GMT -5
Does anyone here who's single fantasize that they are in a loving relationship. I do it all the time, I see a girl and I wonder what it would be like to be with her, sadly I never find out because almost every girl are in relationships already and I have no confidence.
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Post by lennythegiant on Oct 2, 2007 19:39:59 GMT -5
Not with any particular person, but sometimes I do daydream about what things might be like if I had a girlfriend. When you've never experienced it before, it kind of comes to mind quite a bit.
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Post by annaa on Oct 2, 2007 21:28:15 GMT -5
i don't fantasize. i really do have a relationship with someone...he's just invisible. ;D Me too!  On a serious note, I do sometimes wonder what it would be like. But then i'm pretty sure when I do, I imagine it much "smoother" than it would be in real life. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 2, 2007 21:46:13 GMT -5
i don't fantasize. i really do have a relationship with someone...he's just invisible. ;D Me too! On a serious note, I do sometimes wonder what it would be like. But then i'm pretty sure when I do, I imagine it much "smoother" than it would be in real life. yeah, no annoyances like bad breath or stinky feet.  |
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Post by Paulinus on Oct 3, 2007 5:30:34 GMT -5
Not with any particular person, but sometimes I do daydream about what things might be like if I had a girlfriend. When you've never experienced it before, it kind of comes to mind quite a bit. Ditto, I probably think of it more then sex...does that make me weird for a bloke  Anyway with either its with an imaginary/fictional person, I'd feel bad about thinking anything of a real person, repressed freak with low self esteem that I am..  |
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Post by gaz on Oct 3, 2007 13:34:07 GMT -5
i don't fantasize. i really do have a relationship with someone...he's just invisible. ;D What's his name? ;D |
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Post by gaz on Oct 3, 2007 13:36:11 GMT -5
i don't fantasize. i really do have a relationship with someone...he's just invisible. ;D Me too! On a serious note, I do sometimes wonder what it would be like. But then i'm pretty sure when I do, I imagine it much "smoother" than it would be in real life. I suppose that in real life relationships aren't perfect like in fairytales, a lot of people who are in relationships complain about how demanding it is and how they wish they were single, but I have to experience it to know what it's like. |
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Post by gaz on Oct 3, 2007 13:38:39 GMT -5
Not with any particular person, but sometimes I do daydream about what things might be like if I had a girlfriend. When you've never experienced it before, it kind of comes to mind quite a bit. Ditto, I probably think of it more then sex...does that make me weird for a bloke Anyway with either its with an imaginary/fictional person, I'd feel bad about thinking anything of a real person, repressed freak with low self esteem that I am.. No that doesn't make you weird. I think about the sexual side of it but I want it to be in a loving relationship not some meaningless fling. |
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Oct 3, 2007 14:10:44 GMT -5
I always fantasize about being in a relationship...both meaningful and meaningless. I long for the meaningful, but sometimes imagine the meaningless  ...I'm not sure why, maybe because I think that's all I could ever get.  Mostly I think about being held in a guy's arms feeling safe, warm, comforted, and loved all at once. That must be the best feeling in the world. I hope I actually experience it one day. |
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Post by annaa on Oct 3, 2007 17:56:27 GMT -5
Me too! On a serious note, I do sometimes wonder what it would be like. But then i'm pretty sure when I do, I imagine it much "smoother" than it would be in real life. yeah, no annoyances like bad breath or stinky feet. lol. I was thinking more of the " Stop being so needy " sort of comments. The jelousy. The antagonising me when i've got PMT. The not returning my calls. Maybe i'm better off the way I am. lol. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 3, 2007 18:00:00 GMT -5
yeah, no annoyances like bad breath or stinky feet. lol. I was thinking more of the " Stop being so needy " sort of comments. The jelousy. The antagonising me when i've got PMT. The not returning my calls. Maybe i'm better off the way I am. lol. oh, i see...well, life is certainly simpler when you're single...and simplicity is nice...but it can get a bit boring after awhile. |
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Post by gaz on Oct 4, 2007 13:58:54 GMT -5
shhhh...it's a secret, lol. I promise I won't tell anyone ;D |
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Post by Rose on Oct 4, 2007 15:25:26 GMT -5
I sometimes fantasize about them, though I haven't been as much lately as I used to.
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Post by lennythegiant on Oct 4, 2007 22:54:25 GMT -5
Not with any particular person, but sometimes I do daydream about what things might be like if I had a girlfriend. When you've never experienced it before, it kind of comes to mind quite a bit. Ditto, I probably think of it more then sex...does that make me weird for a bloke Not really. That's the way I think to. To be perfectly honest as odd as this sounds I fantasize about kissing or cuddling more than I do actual intercourse. For shy folk I think that's understandable, because a lot of us might be lonely and would like that just as much. |
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Post by quiet on Nov 28, 2007 22:56:10 GMT -5
I fantasize about kissing or cuddling more than I do actual intercourse. Same here - quite a lot more. (I do find that being horny makes being lonely more confusing though.) Mostly I think about being held in a guy's arms feeling safe, warm, comforted, and loved all at once. I want to make someone feel like that. In fact, sharing that kind of bond with someone is what I consider to be the meaning of life for me. It feels so presumptuous to imagine that I could make her feel that, though. I consequently feel pathetic and undesirable when I'm trying to find someone. |
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...I'm not sure why, maybe because I think that's all I could ever get. 
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