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Nov 10, 2008 15:07:08 GMT -5
Post by gSteve on Nov 10, 2008 15:07:08 GMT -5
I'm not.
It got me down sometimes when I was, but even though im not now I probably feel worse about it as I can't imagine ever having it again.
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virgin?
Nov 10, 2008 15:57:07 GMT -5
Post by pnoopiepnats on Nov 10, 2008 15:57:07 GMT -5
hey thanks for the replys guys, im a virgin myself and it does get me down but only cause when ever im out with the lads theres only one topic and thats sex. i cant get in the conversation cause i have nothing to say and i feel like the odd one out kinda thats why it gets me down it dosent bother me when im on my own.(well mayb a tad) This should make you feel better but there is 100% chance your lads are exaggerating and lying about their conquests. |
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Nov 10, 2008 17:08:20 GMT -5
Post by rudy on Nov 10, 2008 17:08:20 GMT -5
i don't cared.. i f*cked plain and simple. no matter what i do in social events it'll never amount to anything. put the fork in me already.i'm done. life isn't something your suppose to enjoy with others..its just a marathon wiht little fun perks here and there until you get to heavan(again, i don't want to start a religous argument.. just saying what i believe). i acutally dslike talking to people.. thats all. i NEVER feel like talking. i'm always dead ass tired 24/7.
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Nov 10, 2008 17:59:15 GMT -5
Post by airburst on Nov 10, 2008 17:59:15 GMT -5
To anyone who's getting all hung-up over being a virgin, if you put enough effort into finding someone to have sex with, you will.
Persistence pays off, really it does.
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virgin?
Nov 10, 2008 18:52:23 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 10, 2008 18:52:23 GMT -5
I'm not sure what's worse; to be made fun of for being a virgin, or to have others (non-virgins mostly) suggest its not something worth worrying about, because quite frankly it does get me down and is an issue to me. But yeah, talking about it won't change anything so erm...carry on with the weird posts...  every person is understandably concerned with their own status. what i often wonder about is why so many people care so much about the status of others. |
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Nov 10, 2008 19:27:04 GMT -5
Post by airburst on Nov 10, 2008 19:27:04 GMT -5
I'm not sure what's worse; to be made fun of for being a virgin, or to have others (non-virgins mostly) suggest its not something worth worrying about, because quite frankly it does get me down and is an issue to me. But yeah, talking about it won't change anything so erm...carry on with the weird posts... what i often wonder about is why so many people care so much about the status of others. Jealousy? Competition? Insecurity? |
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virgin?
Nov 10, 2008 23:34:03 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 10, 2008 23:34:03 GMT -5
what i often wonder about is why so many people care so much about the status of others. Jealousy? Competition? Insecurity? well, we do live in a very competitive society, that's for sure. seems like people do often run others down as a way of making themselves look better...or trying to.  |
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virgin?
Nov 11, 2008 10:36:36 GMT -5
Post by luke360 on Nov 11, 2008 10:36:36 GMT -5
just makes me feel better knowing im not the only one with problems
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Nov 11, 2008 12:34:22 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 11, 2008 12:34:22 GMT -5
just makes me feel better knowing im not the only one with problems yes, and that's one thing that a support forum can legitimately do for you. it can't solve all your problems for you, but it can make you feel less alone.  |
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Nov 15, 2008 3:41:53 GMT -5
Post by k151 on Nov 15, 2008 3:41:53 GMT -5
why is every concerned by being a virgin? chasity, in my opinion, is a gift. Don't want to start a religous arguement, but i'm a devout Christian and my religion teaches to save sex til marriage. whoops, i guess this topic relates to it. i don't really care about those people who dive into relationships. odds are they are usually the ones the rush things and soon fall a part. the main key is to kep a steady,sturdy foundation thorughout life. Sexual intimacy is a basic human need. You can't fault people for wanting sex, it's natural. Not that you are faulting people necessarily, but you have to understand that most people want sex. It's not that they want sex for the sake of having sex (though some do), many people (like me) want someone to be close to. Sex is just one facet of that. I'd give anything just to have a girl to love, and have her love me. Sex would be nice too, but I really want a relationship with someone. Someone I can be close to. The lack of sex bothers me, but the lack of anyone to love bothers me more. I get more cynical with every passing moment. I get more psychologically messed up. |
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Nov 22, 2008 21:17:05 GMT -5
Post by Sanity FreeZ0ne on Nov 22, 2008 21:17:05 GMT -5
just makes me feel better knowing im not the only one with problems yes, and that's one thing that a support forum can legitimately do for you. it can't solve all your problems for you, but it can make you feel less alone. what do you think it can do "illegitimatley" then...? |
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Nov 23, 2008 1:24:49 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 23, 2008 1:24:49 GMT -5
yes, and that's one thing that a support forum can legitimately do for you. it can't solve all your problems for you, but it can make you feel less alone. what do you think it can do "illegitimatley" then...? perhaps lead you to believe you're going to get some kind of help which you're not. |
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Nov 23, 2008 23:49:06 GMT -5
Post by Sanity FreeZ0ne on Nov 23, 2008 23:49:06 GMT -5
what do you think it can do "illegitimatley" then...? perhaps lead you to believe you're going to get some kind of help which you're not. and how would this "support board" achieve this "illegitamatley" then ? |
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Nov 24, 2008 0:15:45 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 24, 2008 0:15:45 GMT -5
perhaps lead you to believe you're going to get some kind of help which you're not. and how would this "support board" achieve this "illegitamatley" then ? if you have something to say, why don't you just say it? |
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Nov 24, 2008 15:27:19 GMT -5
Post by Farouche on Nov 24, 2008 15:27:19 GMT -5
SanityFreeZone ---------------
and how would this "support board" achieve this "illegitamatley" then ?
Sweet Pea -----------------
if you have something to say, why don't you just say it? I think SFZ was asking what non-"legitimate" help a shy site had to offer--and that is advice and a place to go where your troubles are all the same (and everybody knows your (screen)name). And SFZ, I think SP was just saying that what a support forum can't be expected to do is actually solve people's problems; it can only be expected give you support in dealing with those problems. Am I right, guys? Cookie..? ;D |
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