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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 10:49:09 GMT -5
Post by luke360 on Nov 9, 2008 10:49:09 GMT -5
hi just curious how many people here are virgins due to there shyness
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 15:19:11 GMT -5
Post by Tal on Nov 9, 2008 15:19:11 GMT -5
Yep, sadly I am. Can't see that changing anytime soon either.  |
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 17:21:41 GMT -5
Post by luke360 on Nov 9, 2008 17:21:41 GMT -5
theres been 30 visits and only 5 people voted, whats that about?
come on dont be shy
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 17:38:22 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 9, 2008 17:38:22 GMT -5
theres been 30 visits and only 5 people voted, whats that about? come on dont be shy you're kidding, right? don't be surprised if some people don't like answering deeply personal questions. |
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 17:42:14 GMT -5
Post by rukryM on Nov 9, 2008 17:42:14 GMT -5
^^....this is a SHY people's forum  . |
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 17:56:38 GMT -5
Post by Sigh on Nov 9, 2008 17:56:38 GMT -5
Lol. Yeah I am unfortunately.
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 18:41:12 GMT -5
Post by rudy on Nov 9, 2008 18:41:12 GMT -5
why is every concerned by being a virgin? chasity, in my opinion, is a gift. Don't want to start a religous arguement, but i'm a devout Christian and my religion teaches to save sex til marriage. whoops, i guess this topic relates to it.
i don't really care about those people who dive into relationships. odds are they are usually the ones the rush things and soon fall a part. the main key is to kep a steady,sturdy foundation thorughout life.
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 20:14:15 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 9, 2008 20:14:15 GMT -5
why is every concerned by being a virgin? chasity, in my opinion, is a gift. Don't want to start a religous arguement, but i'm a devout Christian and my religion teaches to save sex til marriage. whoops, i guess this topic relates to it. i don't really care about those people who dive into relationships. odds are they are usually the ones the rush things and soon fall a part. the main key is to kep a steady,sturdy foundation thorughout life. that's very admirable, unless of course these are convoluted excuses for staying in a social anxiety rut and making not one move towards getting on with a normal life. and i have seen it used that way by people who suffer from social anxiety and APD. and unfortunately the people who do this are the last to realize that's what they're doing. which is sad. |
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 21:22:15 GMT -5
Post by skyhint on Nov 9, 2008 21:22:15 GMT -5
Is virgin an insult? Do some people use it as one? It seems like a none-of-your-buisness kind of subject to me rather than a thing to be ashamed or hurt by being called.
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virgin?
Nov 9, 2008 21:46:39 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 9, 2008 21:46:39 GMT -5
Is virgin an insult? Do some people use it as one? It seems like a none-of-your-buisness kind of subject to me rather than a thing to be ashamed or hurt by being called. sometimes people are insulted and looked down upon for being virgins at an advanced age (however you choose to define that). but i think more to the point here is the fact that some people feel they are prevented by social anxiety from having the normal adult relationships they would like to have. in that case, it's not really your choice. |
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virgin?
Nov 10, 2008 3:55:52 GMT -5
Post by pnoopiepnats on Nov 10, 2008 3:55:52 GMT -5
Being a virgin only seems to matter to virgins.
Nobody else really cares.
I guess I am amazed at all the shy folk who volunteer to everyone their sexual status. No one would ever know you were a virgin unless you told them.
I'm not a virgin.
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virgin?
Nov 10, 2008 4:08:56 GMT -5
Post by airburst on Nov 10, 2008 4:08:56 GMT -5
Being a virgin only seems to matter to virgins. Nobody else really cares. Some people care and those people are called, assholes. |
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Nov 10, 2008 9:57:30 GMT -5
Post by Sweet Pea on Nov 10, 2008 9:57:30 GMT -5
Being a virgin only seems to matter to virgins. Nobody else really cares. Some people care and those people are called, assholes. or pedophiles. |
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Nov 10, 2008 14:15:07 GMT -5
Post by Tal on Nov 10, 2008 14:15:07 GMT -5
I'm not sure what's worse; to be made fun of for being a virgin, or to have others (non-virgins mostly) suggest its not something worth worrying about, because quite frankly it does get me down and is an issue to me. But yeah, talking about it won't change anything so erm...carry on with the weird posts...  |
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Nov 10, 2008 14:29:24 GMT -5
Post by luke360 on Nov 10, 2008 14:29:24 GMT -5
hey thanks for the replys guys,
im a virgin myself and it does get me down but only cause when ever im out with the lads theres only one topic and thats sex. i cant get in the conversation cause i have nothing to say and i feel like the odd one out kinda thats why it gets me down it dosent bother me when im on my own.(well mayb a tad)
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