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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 9, 2008 9:44:29 GMT -5
and just exactly how long will we have to wait until hell freezes over? j/k ;D actually, i find this is something i automatically do when i really like a guy...reach out and touch him. it's not a studied move though, it's just a natural outgrowth of my feelings toward him. it's also a true signal of my openness toward him, because i'm very unlikely to ever touch a guy otherwise. Let's see, I have to find out a way of bringing Frosty the Snowman through the Gates of Hell first, and then we talk about physical flirting somehow  . All of this touching talk seems so otherwordly and surreal, since it's never happened to me. Guess that's just me slowly and somehow emerging out of the nutshell^^. yeah, i know what you mean about the otherworldly and surreal thing. that's how it feels when it happens. and it sure doesn't happen very often. always surprises me when it does. |
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Post by rukryM on Dec 9, 2008 10:47:12 GMT -5
According to your second last post where you imagined yourself doing it does it sound to me like you don't find it strange at all^^.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 9, 2008 11:06:46 GMT -5
According to your second last post where you imagined yourself doing it does it sound to me like you don't find it strange at all^^. well, it does just kind of happen. but it does feel strange, especially afterwards to realize i've done it. i think anything you do very rarely feels strange to do...at least i'm that way. |
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Post by crimeclub on Dec 9, 2008 12:19:37 GMT -5
wait...you see a guy you like, and you reach out and touch him? In what context are you touching this guy? Or is it just a random touch?
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Post by MrNice on Dec 9, 2008 12:32:29 GMT -5
it happens when you are talking and having a really a really fun engaging conversation, the girl will reach out and touch you, I'll try to find a youtube clip with an example www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZtbZOFtQurA at 52 seconds this is an ok example as she was not looking at him when she touched him which makes it more on the friendly side |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 9, 2008 19:08:01 GMT -5
it happens when you are talking and having a really a really fun engaging conversation, the girl will reach out and touch you, I'll try to find a youtube clip with an example www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZtbZOFtQurA at 52 seconds this is an ok example as she was not looking at him when she touched him which makes it more on the friendly side yeah, engaging...that's it exactly. the last time it happened to me i was talking to a guy i really like. i definitely was looking at him though, and the eye contact was...well...amazing.  during the conversation i reached out and touched him, and i didn't fully realize i had done it until afterward. |
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Post by rukryM on Dec 10, 2008 7:03:57 GMT -5
You're starting to make me jealous -_- . Why hasn't this happened to me yet^^?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 10, 2008 9:27:41 GMT -5
You're starting to make me jealous -_- . Why hasn't this happened to me yet^^? well, perhaps because of that talking to a woman part? |
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Post by rukryM on Dec 10, 2008 9:58:29 GMT -5
You're starting to make me jealous -_- . Why hasn't this happened to me yet^^? well, perhaps because of that talking to a woman part? Probably yes  . Good that life is so easy on us shy people ^^. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 10, 2008 12:01:58 GMT -5
You're starting to make me jealous -_- . Why hasn't this happened to me yet^^? well, perhaps because of that talking to a woman part? well, if it makes you feel any better, i didn't get what i wanted even if i was able to talk to him. |
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Post by rukryM on Dec 10, 2008 14:22:51 GMT -5
Of course it doesn't. Christmas is approaching, and as you said it yourself; my attitude is going into the toilet ^^ {but I'm still jealous though}. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Dec 10, 2008 18:34:26 GMT -5
Of course it doesn't. Christmas is approaching, and as you said it yourself; my attitude is going into the toilet ^^ {but I'm still jealous though}. ***giant flushing sound*** ;D |
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. Good that life is so easy on us shy people ^^.