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Post by nigella on Apr 12, 2009 5:32:22 GMT -5
Some women may reject guys on lack of sexual experience although i belive this to be the girls that are only after no strings fun.
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Post by rukryM on Apr 12, 2009 5:44:33 GMT -5
Sluts like that aren't worth wasting your time on.
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Post by nigella on Apr 12, 2009 10:59:58 GMT -5
Well i had a chat with an old school freind earlier and i told him that someone asked if ive ever been with a woman and he laughed. So it seems some people think im player and others are suspicous.
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Post by Farouche on Apr 12, 2009 11:34:54 GMT -5
Rukry --------------
Sluts like that aren't worth wasting your time on. That's seriously offensive. You don't think there's a way to express that same sentiment without calling anybody a "slut?"  |
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Post by rukryM on Apr 12, 2009 13:49:55 GMT -5
If girls reject guys because the guys have less sexual experience than them it tells me a lot, including the fact that they only want to shag. And that they most likely are promiscuous, hence, they are sluts. Not offensive.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 14:13:09 GMT -5
If girls reject guys because the guys have less sexual experience than them it tells me a lot, including the fact that they only want to shag. And that they most likely are promiscuous, hence, they are sluts. Not offensive. ya know, i get that too! some men are such sluts! |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 14:16:25 GMT -5
Well i had a chat with an old school freind earlier and i told him that someone asked if ive ever been with a woman and he laughed. So it seems some people think im player and others are suspicous. people and what they think are gonna be the death of me i swear. i know it's hard but try not to care so much about what people think. you'll be way better off, trust me. |
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Post by rukryM on Apr 12, 2009 15:18:04 GMT -5
If girls reject guys because the guys have less sexual experience than them it tells me a lot, including the fact that they only want to shag. And that they most likely are promiscuous, hence, they are sluts. Not offensive. ya know, i get that too! some men are such sluts! Yeah, I think it was at www.urbandictionary.com that "slut" was defined as a "girl with a guy's moral", so yes indeed, there are male sluts everywhere  . |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 15:23:01 GMT -5
ya know, i get that too! some men are such sluts! Yeah, I think it was at www.urbandictionary.com that "slut" was defined as a "girl with a guy's moral", so yes indeed, there are male sluts everywhere . you better believe it. it's hard work to comb thru them all to find one who isn't like that actually.  |
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Post by MrNice on Apr 12, 2009 15:39:24 GMT -5
first of all, girls do not reject guys just because of lack of sexual experience
even if they just want to shag
a girl has no way of knowing your sexual experience anyway, and even if you don't have experience it doesn't mean you would not make a good lay
its a non issue
calling women sluts is offensive
it is moronic to argue otherwise
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 15:54:39 GMT -5
first of all, girls do not reject guys just because of lack of sexual experience even if they just want to shag a girl has no way of knowing your sexual experience anyway, and even if you don't have experience it doesn't mean you would not make a good lay its a non issue calling women sluts is offensive it is moronic to argue otherwise a lot of women are sluts though, so in that case it's only accurate. there are even websites for women and men who identify as sluts and make no bones about it, and they wouldn't even consider it an insult. but in normal society, yes it is an insult. and i do agree that people have no knowledge of your sexual experience when they meet you. they may speculate, which in and of itself is insulting, but they can't know. even very shy people can be sexually experienced, but someone who's trying to put you down won't care about that. there are people who will reject you because of a lack of sexual experience, but why would you care about the opinion of someone like that? that's what i want to know. these people who treat sex like a gymnastics exercise instead of an expression of love between two people lead pretty empty lives near as i can tell. i wouldn't give two hoots for what they think. a healthy attitude towards sex is a good thing, but what's going on these days is more reminiscent of sodom and gomorrah than anything healthy or desirable. personally, i think a lack of communication is far more of a deterrent to a normal relationship than sexual inexperience is. |
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Post by MrNice on Apr 12, 2009 16:15:38 GMT -5
i disagree with the whole idea of passing this kind of judgment upon people
she rejected me, I am hurt - oh but she must be a slut anyway so that makes it ok and I am supposed to feel better now?
are we talking about a situation where a girl really likes a guy but due to his inexperience rejects him? probably not - she probably doesn't like him anyway, the inexperience is likely just a front runner excuse
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 16:26:34 GMT -5
i disagree with the whole idea of passing this kind of judgment upon people she rejected me, I am hurt - oh but she must be a slut anyway so that makes it ok and I am supposed to feel better now? are we talking about a situation where a girl really likes a guy but due to his inexperience rejects him? probably not - she probably doesn't like him anyway, the inexperience is likely just a front runner excuse good point, if that's what's going on. i'm kinda getting the impression the OP is dealing with one of those schoolmate situations in which you get labeled and publicly degraded. all the rest is just philosophical discussion. |
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Post by rukryM on Apr 12, 2009 16:30:54 GMT -5
are we talking about a situation where a girl really likes a guy but due to his inexperience rejects him? probably not - she probably doesn't like him anyway, the inexperience is likely just a front runner excuse That was what I was talking about, and they exist, though they aren't many, but they are out there. And those promiscuous creatures thinking only of sex are nothing but sluts. Nothing wrong with calling them that. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Apr 12, 2009 16:33:42 GMT -5
are we talking about a situation where a girl really likes a guy but due to his inexperience rejects him? probably not - she probably doesn't like him anyway, the inexperience is likely just a front runner excuse That was what I was talking about, and they exist, though they aren't many, but they are out there. And those promiscuous creatures thinking only of sex are nothing but sluts. Nothing wrong with calling them that. but haven't you heard of the sex positive movement? what? you're not buying that logic? ;D |
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