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Post by putter65 on Dec 18, 2011 3:33:39 GMT -5
Thanks but she as gone cool on me again. It's all very frustrating, I've seen her once (for an hour) in nearly two weeks now. The texting seems now to be me sending them and her replying. She used to always send me texts.
I don't know what's the best thing to do ?
Just leave alone for a few days and see if she comes back ?
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Post by putter65 on Dec 18, 2011 4:43:00 GMT -5
Decided not to play it cool. I sent her a text saying I had been looking forward to seeing her today and that I care about her. She replied giving the reasons why she couldn't see me (picking up her kids) and she might be able to see me this afternoon.
There is always this niggle in the back of my mind that she thinks I don't care that much. I think the text proves I do and the ball is now in her court.
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Post by putter65 on Dec 18, 2011 12:04:02 GMT -5
The problem was she is going for an holiday over xmas. I guess she thought I would be upset. She had said she wasn't going. We exchanged xmas presents, she was very happy with mine.
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Post by putter65 on Dec 19, 2011 15:58:21 GMT -5
Everything really good with my girlfriend.
But I got a text from the golf woman, remember her ?
It said 'I hope you have been getting my texts, my phone is dodgy' and then some stuff about xmas and wanting to meet for a cuppa and catchup.
What utter crap ! There was no texts ! She is such a fraud pretending she has been sending me texts messages when in reality she never did !
I didn't want to answer her but I did, said I was fine and told her about her well I'm getting on with my new girlfriend. I didn't mention meeting her for a cuppa. I don't want to. She tells lies all the time. She has an affair with a married man, gets found out and then tells everybody (including his wife) that's it's rubbish and just nonsense and people spreading rumours. Then she waits a few months and starts again with the pig.
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Post by putter65 on Dec 23, 2011 16:23:30 GMT -5
My girlfriend was lying about her holiday, she sent texts claiming to be in a different country. She was at home all along (a friend told me) - I went around and another man was there. Great Stuff !
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Post by putter65 on Dec 26, 2011 12:29:18 GMT -5
So a year of crap really. Got messed about for 6 months and then another woman pulls a stunt like that. Amazing !
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Post by putter65 on Dec 29, 2011 15:33:02 GMT -5
I think I am kidding myself thinking I am going to get an explantion or an apology. I was played for the fun of it, treated with no respect. Everything was a lie and fake. There seems no reason why though ?
I've sent her a few texts and a facebook message. She hasn't replied. I don't get a 'sorry' - nothing.
I've told people at work and a few customers and they can't believe it.
I don't think I can take anything from this. It was a disaster from the start !
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Post by putter65 on Jan 2, 2012 4:40:23 GMT -5
A few days have passed and still not feeling much better. Feeling down and depressed to be honest.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 3, 2012 8:34:02 GMT -5
Shs sent me a text last night. Wants to meet me for a chat. I have no idea what she is going to be like or what she will have to say for herself.
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Post by passivebubbles on Jan 6, 2012 3:18:12 GMT -5
You just made me very happy.
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Post by passivebubbles on Jan 6, 2012 3:19:27 GMT -5
When i was reading this thread i was listening to The Smiths and for some reason, found it very suiting.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 6, 2012 10:54:29 GMT -5
Glad I made you happy. I like The Smiths too.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 6, 2012 10:55:06 GMT -5
We've got a coffee date on Monday. See what happens.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 10, 2012 9:56:30 GMT -5
She was too busy for that so I didn't bother. She is like a bad penny though. I decided not to have anything more to do with her. I don't have the heart to tell her but I presumed she wouldn't bother getting in touch again.
Wrong !
She send a text yesterday, a long one. So I answer because I can't ignore people and we swap texts to and fro for awhile. Just like the old days. A bit of humour in there too.
I should stop guessing what is going to happen next because she is so unpredictable.
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Post by Karen on Jan 10, 2012 10:31:37 GMT -5
^ Is this post about the girl you used to work with, or the girl you were dating for a bit? I got confused by the 'just like the old days' part.
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