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Post by putter65 on Jan 10, 2012 11:50:29 GMT -5
Hello Karen
Hope you are well !
I started writing this diary about a woman I used to work with. We played golf a few times but she was never interested and in October I stopped bothering with her. I found out she had been having this sorid affair with a married man (my boss) - he's a pig by the way. She sends me texts every now and again but I hardly reply. I wish she would go away.
In November I started seeing this other woman. Everything was going well until she lied to me about going on this family holiday at xmas. She was in fact staying with this other man in another city. She is one who got back in touch with the text. I still care, god knows why ? Maybe because she was a proper girlfriend for awhile.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 13, 2012 16:04:42 GMT -5
The state of play is :
The ex girlfriend - She sent me 2 texts this week. That is her sending them and not replying to mine. She didn't ask to meet up or anything. Don't know why she is doing it because she is probably gone onto her next bloke. She was chatty enough, asking me how I was.
Flirty woman - Not heard from her for a couple of weeks. I'm not bothered.
Golf Woman - I hope I don't hear from her again.
Co Worker woman - I really liked her, she left work in November. I've not heard from her for awhile. Yes she replies to my posts but never bothers sending them to me. I never thought she was bothered.
So it's aload of rubbish to be honest !
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Post by putter65 on Jan 22, 2012 10:52:14 GMT -5
New woman to think about. She has recently split up from a boyfriend. I work with her, known her for 10 years. Always got on with her. She is very nice, older than me, grown up kids. never thought about her in a romantic way because she has never been single.
Last week another woman at work told me she was single and said we should get together. They are best friends. I did wonder if the other woman was setting me up with her.
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Post by putter65 on Jan 27, 2012 15:43:43 GMT -5
Not much happened with the new woman. She's sent me some messages on facebook, thats it. My ex girlfriend has sent a few texts. I rang her up yesterday for a chat. It was nice enough. She wants to stay in touch.
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Post by putter65 on Feb 5, 2012 8:20:41 GMT -5
Quite an eventfull week.
The golf woman (Original woman at start of this thread) - She sent me a text wanting to meet for coffee. I didn't want to, I have nothing to say to her. She is a slut. She was never a great friend anyway, she didn't answer most of my texts, used me to work in her shop then forgot about me. And most of all she went with that twat of a manager. He was married and she could have chosen anyone (me included of course) and she choose that vile, ignorant pig. It's just disgusting and now I know for sure I never want to speak to her again.
I didn't answer her text and the next day she sent me another. Ignored that too. A few days after that she sent me a facebook message so I answered that, I couldn't keep ignoring her. I told her I had heard things about her and I didn't want to be friends anymore. She wasn't very pleased but I don't feel bad about it. I am glad. I probably won't hear from her again.
The new woman, nothing happened. I asked the woman who was trying to set us up about it and she didn't answer. No idea what it was all about !
Met my ex girlfriend yesterday was a drink. It was okay, it was a small step in the right direction. She wouldn't kiss though when I asked. But she smiled so I think it was the right thing to do.
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Post by putter65 on Feb 6, 2012 17:21:10 GMT -5
Not heard from my ex girlfriend today. She is either playing it cool or she isn't bothered. I noticed her xmas fella has been deleted from her facebook friends list. So she has obviously fallen out with him. She's done that in the last few days so whether it has anything to do with going out with me I don't know.
I'll send her a text in a couple of days and see how things are.
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Post by putter65 on Feb 9, 2012 13:27:14 GMT -5
She sent text messages yesterday and today. Still keeping in touch. I don't know whether to suggest a second meeting.
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Post by putter65 on Feb 11, 2012 16:10:07 GMT -5
Well she didn't reply to my last text. Not sure why. I wished her a nice weekend. How hard is it to type 'thank you' ?
That's the main thing I like about her. She actually replies to my messages and sends me texts. Nobody else does, they may answer my texts but if I left it they wouldn't bother.
I'm thinking about doing it, stop all this 'sending a friendly message to people every once in awhile' lets see what happens ?
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Post by putter65 on Feb 13, 2012 15:21:07 GMT -5
She's back texting. Had a few yesterday and today. She's nice like that. Sent me a message wishing me a nice round of golf. (Didn't play because of the snow)
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Post by putter65 on Feb 20, 2012 4:34:16 GMT -5
I asked to meet her at weekend. She never said 'no' , said she didn't know she could make it because of baby sittings problems. Her text on Friday night didn't arrive, she apologized on Saturday morning. It's not great, infact it's rubbish but she never comes out with not wanting to hear from me again. No harm having her knocking around as a text friend I suppose.
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Post by putter65 on Feb 24, 2012 13:39:00 GMT -5
A few texts this week. She wasn't available to meet this weekend but said it would be 'great' to meet up next week sometime !
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Post by putter65 on Mar 5, 2012 11:14:36 GMT -5
Seen her the last 2 weeks. On Mondays for an hour or so. Last week was nice, this week was shit. Not sure I am bothering next week.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 9, 2012 11:08:41 GMT -5
She rang me yesterday asking me about e books. She might not be the nicest person in the world but at least she bothers with me. I've been off work this week and I've had one message on facebook from a work colleague. And that was a reply to a comment I wrote.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 11, 2012 10:20:35 GMT -5
I waited 3 days to see if she'd send a text. She hasn't. And so far she hasn't replied to my text I just sent. I don't care much but I would like an answer. If she doesn't want me to get in touch anymore she will have to tell me.
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Post by putter65 on Mar 19, 2012 10:30:55 GMT -5
Sent a text to the golf woman today. I felt a bit bad how I acted so firstly I sent a friends request on facebook which she accepted and then I sent a text this morning. I didn't mention any of the things that were said, just wrote a few lines as though we were still mates. She answered with a nice enough text, saying what she was doing etc.
Didn't see the other woman today, she said she was busy.
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