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Post by putter65 on May 4, 2011 10:52:22 GMT -5
Awfull day ! She's been left for 3 months and people still talk about her. It does my head in ! They whisper and smirk amongst themselves. They are saying the married boss is screwing her. All I hear is half finished sentences and whispers. I don't want to know, I never ask. Whether she is or not, I don't know ?
Just awfull !
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Post by putter65 on May 4, 2011 12:26:40 GMT -5
People at work are going out tonight for a curry. My crush is going (even though she left 3 months ago) and the boss is going. A few others. I can't understand the boss going because nobody usually invites him. Maybe my crush did ? Nobody asked me. Maybe the boss and my crush are going as a couple and he's ditched his wife ? I'm waiting for that. It will destroy me if it happens. I guess I will find out tommorrow.
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Post by putter65 on May 4, 2011 15:48:15 GMT -5
It's been such a rollacoaster over the last 6 or 7 months. Today I feel awfull. I wish people would shut their traps. I never ask whats going on, yet they talk and gossip and whisper. I can't not hear it.
This second golf meeting, she has been going on about. I can't help think she's just saying it, just to keep me happy. And she has no intention of doing it. I was going to ask her in a text message a week today. I am off in a couple of weeks. I thought, 'well it can't do any harm ' - she probably won't reply to it but what the hell ? - I'm not sure now. I feel awfull, terrible, I don't want to meet her feeling like this. I'm going to have to feel alot better this time next week to ask her. I've got it in my head, it doesn't matter what she says, if she's too busy then so what ? There is nothing to lose and everything to gain. And she's mentioned it 3 times, it's not like I'm suggesting something. I'm just doing a follow up.
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Post by missklew on May 4, 2011 19:09:51 GMT -5
Are there other girls you can ask out that you chat with on fb?
This girl really isn't interested in being friends.
Maybe you can get some game by treating these girls like garbage and they would be chasing you.
What do your photos look like on facebook? You could go for the bad ass looking with tattoos and lots of bottles of booze and cool cars. Or the sensitive artist type with your piano and sketchings or the crazy rocker dude. Or the executive type with MIB look and sport stuff. Bicycle, golf, yacht, etc. Young girls eat that shit up.
Make up some new facebook friends that are girls who are super hot don't use celebrity photos though, and have them post messages about what a great time they had with you. Make them fight over you on the facebook.
As stupid as people are, the girls you are really interested in would eat this rubbish up and be all over you trying to tame the player.
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Post by putter65 on May 5, 2011 10:00:08 GMT -5
My facebook photo is when I was a little kid. I don't like any modern day ones. Horrible.
I was getting worried over nothing, it was just a leaving party for a manager from another shop. Nothing sinister at all. It's just stupid gossip !
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Post by putter65 on May 6, 2011 15:29:03 GMT -5
She seems to 'like' my comments on facebook now. After our first golf meeting, she went about 3 weeks without doing this. Now she is, quite often as well. I wonder why ? I'm going to ask her to golf next week. She does seem to be taking an interest in my golf game.
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Post by putter65 on May 8, 2011 2:15:35 GMT -5
She chatted with me on facebook yesteday. I asked her to golf and she said 'yes' - so I've got that to look forward to. She said she was also going to come into work for a cuppa. Once she started chatting with me, I didn't have any worries or nerves and I was quite bold for me.
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Post by putter65 on May 9, 2011 13:38:18 GMT -5
Back to work tommorrow for last week before my holiday. Dreading it. It's the gossip I hate. I should be used to it, it's all people have talked about for the last year and half. The boss and her. Why they can't find something else to talk about ? I don't know !
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Post by putter65 on May 11, 2011 11:14:40 GMT -5
Horrible day, people talking as though it's a fact. I never get involved, I don't talk about it. I still might send that text to her on Saturday arranging out golf meeting. I'm in two minds about it. So glad to be on holiday next week.
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Post by putter65 on May 12, 2011 13:08:28 GMT -5
I did send the text but she hasn't answered yet. Maybe it's for the best. How bad is this ? People are saying the boss is shagging her, he often disapears during the day and people say 'there he goes for a quickie' - I have to witness all this. How crap is it ? I can't think of anything worse to be honest.
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Post by putter65 on May 12, 2011 14:50:08 GMT -5
going to golf on tuesday with her. She came on facebook and asked me.
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Post by putter65 on May 14, 2011 13:30:24 GMT -5
I'm on holiday now, 9 days off. So looking forward to it. Hate work at the moment. All this gossip. The boss is a bald , fat, ugly sod with no manners. A complete wanker yet these women talk about him all the time.
Unsure how Tuesday is going to be. Without all this gossip, i would be really looking forward to it. I've got a couple of days to get my head straight. She must want to see me, I gave her every opportunity to back out of it. There was no pressure. If she is at it with the boss, why would she want to mess about with me on a golf course ?
I suppose I'll find out on Tuesday.
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Post by missklew on May 14, 2011 16:25:38 GMT -5
What do they say about the boss? You think the women there sleep with him to get ahead?
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Post by putter65 on May 15, 2011 1:29:34 GMT -5
No, this woman I like and used to work with. She moved shops just after xmas because the boss's wife accussed of her having an affair with him. All the staff talked about them for a year and half upto that point. I never believed it.
When she told me about it she was very convincing. She looked very upset about being accussed, she wasn't faking it. She's been left 4 months and the gossip has started again. The boss disappears alot. The staff say he has gone to shag her. I don't know how they know like. If she's so wrapped up with him, I don't know why she would hang around with me. I should be really looking forward to it, seeing her again but of course other people spoil things. From what I gather, she's had boyfriends since xmas, so I don't know what to believe.
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Post by putter65 on May 15, 2011 10:57:46 GMT -5
Getting a bit nervous. Not seen her for 2 months. I just hope nothing goes wrong !
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