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Post by strawberrysweetie on Feb 18, 2008 21:40:05 GMT -5
*yawn*
Forget it. I'm done.
I don't know why, but I always think there is some good in people and that deep down the majority of people want to be knowledgeable and do good things.
*back to being cynical*
This isn't worth my time anymore. I'm done.
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Post by theinfiniteabyss84 on Feb 18, 2008 21:41:12 GMT -5
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Post by annaa on Feb 18, 2008 21:54:45 GMT -5
Why are you (CarbonCopy) and MrNice (and anyone else) so bothered by me and people who are backing me up on what i'm saying?
If I want to believe a sane guy out there will love me for who I am, then let me be. If you think i'm deluded, then fine. I have faith that most decent men who are potentially compatable with me won't dismiss me on the basis of my weight alone.
Why is it bothering you so much?
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 18, 2008 21:58:38 GMT -5
Okay, all of us here. Let's all take a deep breath and chill out.  Come on, enough of this arguing. Hell, i'm not even sure what all of you are going on about now.  Carboncopy, just take this advice. I am hardly a dream man myself. I am a bit on the short side; Some people have compared me to the Robert Conrad, only of the 21st century.  You'll never see me modeling Speedo underwaer, or whatever they produce nowadays. Neither will i ever be featured on the cover of Forbes or Time. I'm a low class, blue collar working man who will likely marry a woman very much like me and my background, and i can tell you this; we will both complete each other and be happy. Bottom line; you work with what you're given in life, and you mold yourself from the clay you recieve. A man's actions are what make him into the man he becomes, not what he looks like. Same thing for a woman; Her actions make her into the woman she is. If you go through life acting like an accusing asshole looking at every women in life as she'll break your heart and cheat you, well, ironically it'll happen that way.  Stop acting like a dickhead who knows everything; start showing women some respect and they'll give it back to you in kind. You'll be surprised. |
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 18, 2008 22:05:32 GMT -5
Why are you (CarbonCopy) and MrNice (and anyone else) so bothered by me and people who are backing me up on what i'm saying? Because you are different, and people like you. |
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Post by MrNice on Feb 18, 2008 22:23:17 GMT -5
I am not bohtered much by what you are saying
and as tempting as it is I try not to respond in kind to all the insults that have been thrown at me
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Post by annaa on Feb 18, 2008 22:32:30 GMT -5
Well then it's settled. It's not like i'm interested in a relationship with either of you - and i'm sure the feeling is mutual. So let's stop worrying about it. ...and as tempting as it is I try not to respond in kind to all the insults that have been thrown at me They're deserved in my opinion. |
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Post by theinfiniteabyss84 on Feb 18, 2008 22:35:23 GMT -5
This thread =  |
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Post by annaa on Feb 18, 2008 22:37:15 GMT -5
Shouldn't it be the Brits being shot at?
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Post by lennythegiant on Feb 18, 2008 23:56:11 GMT -5
Do I dare? why not? OK IMO you cannot get more attractive because everyone's tastes are different. Do I lose weight? some men like curves. Do I wear more make-up? some men like a more natural look. And Mr.Nice has a point about looking for someone in your own league, and so do others who say its not just about looks, it is compatable personalities too. So, I think, in conclusion, you must be physically attracted to eachother to some degree, and you must have personalities that get along well together. And you know what, I think everyone here feels roughly the same way I do. no? Yeah, that seems to pretty much sum it up. Although, the shallow guy in me always has that fool's hope of getting with a hot girl out of my league.  (Although I've definitely matured in what I think is attractive, once I actually started to meet girls my opinions on who I found attractive for what reasons kind of expanded). |
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 19, 2008 0:20:23 GMT -5
Shouldn't it be the Brits being shot at? Guns weren't that accurate back then. |
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Post by airburst on Feb 19, 2008 2:00:01 GMT -5
So...how about that local sports team?
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 19, 2008 2:47:21 GMT -5
So...how about that local sports team? lol...brilliant idea! bodhi, how about playing on a co-ed softball or volleyball team this summer? never know who you might bump into. |
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Feb 19, 2008 22:57:38 GMT -5
I've read the 'how can I meet a woman' post and was very dissapointed that is just became a pointless argument with no real advice. So I'm starting a thread where people can give actual advice on getting a girlfriend or a boyfriend. .... Please post if anyone has advice. And PLEASE don't argue with each other! Good intentions go to waste again. Hey, Bodhi...I just want to apologize for taking part in the argument that evolved from this thread. Sorry. Maybe it can go back to the original topic now.... |
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 20, 2008 1:31:08 GMT -5
All right, i'll steer this thread back to the original topic. For first or second dates, when the feelings are warming up . . . Men: Bring a flower. Just one, it means more. Women: Wear something low cut, or show a bit of leg. Simple tricks, but they work. |
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(Although I've definitely matured in what I think is attractive, once I actually started to meet girls my opinions on who I found attractive for what reasons kind of expanded).
