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Post by annaa on Feb 20, 2008 3:15:34 GMT -5
I think it's best if we just let this thread fade into obscurity.
Perhaps we could do a pinned one (like the where to find nice guys/nice girls threads) and call it "General advice for shy bees".
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Feb 20, 2008 4:03:52 GMT -5
All right, i'll steer this thread back to the original topic.  For first or second dates, when the feelings are warming up . . . Men: Bring a flower. Just one, it means more.  Women: Wear something low cut, or show a bit of leg. Simple tricks, but they work. Russ, can't say I agree with either one of those. Bringing a flower comes across as trying too hard. Wearing revealing clothes sends a signal; jump my bones. Not good for initial dates. Better saved for relationships. ;D |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 20, 2008 9:47:13 GMT -5
i've gotta agree that showing skin to strangers is a great way to attract jerks. dressing sexy is something i do for a bf, but not for random strangers. unfortunately, in this culture any bare skin indicates to a lot of guys that you're 'easy' - ready to be used and discarded by all comers. so if that's what you want....
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 20, 2008 23:06:03 GMT -5
All right, i'll steer this thread back to the original topic. For first or second dates, when the feelings are warming up . . . Men: Bring a flower. Just one, it means more. Women: Wear something low cut, or show a bit of leg. Simple tricks, but they work. Russ, can't say I agree with either one of those. Bringing a flower comes across as trying too hard. Wearing revealing clothes sends a signal; jump my bones. Not good for initial dates. Better saved for relationships. ;D Ok, no problem. I'm just throwing out ideas here. But it seems 'jump my bones' is what people want nowadays. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 21, 2008 1:54:25 GMT -5
...it seems 'jump my bones' is what people want nowadays. certainly seems that way. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 21, 2008 2:14:35 GMT -5
Ok, no problem. I'm just throwing out ideas here. Yeah, god forbid you defend your opinion. any opportunity to take a shot at someone, right? |
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Post by annaa on Feb 21, 2008 2:40:37 GMT -5
any opportunity to take a shot at someone, right? No, not any... just the ones that beg for it. Hush little baby, don't say a word... |
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Post by Scotty on Feb 21, 2008 3:29:18 GMT -5
Mama's going to buy you a mockingbird.
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 21, 2008 4:17:01 GMT -5
Ok, no problem. I'm just throwing out ideas here. Yeah, god forbid you defend your opinion. Go to hell already.  I don't mind you taking potshots at me, but i'm sick and tired of your attitude. And i'm tired of trying to be civil with you. Time for you to be banned. Go suck it up and try your shit elsewhere. Be a real man, for once, and walk away. And God have mercy on you if you and i ever meet in real life, cause little twits like you get an ass pounding in my part of the world. |
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Post by MrNice on Feb 21, 2008 9:11:12 GMT -5
I had to laugh when I read that
just shows that people really are the same
all this talk of maturity is nonsense
and you are telling him to be a man and walk away after publicly insulting him and telling him that talking back will get him banned? some mod you are
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Post by Sweet Pea on Feb 21, 2008 10:44:30 GMT -5
I had to laugh when I read that just shows that people really are the same all this talk of maturity is nonsense and you are telling him to be a man and walk away after publicly insulting him and telling him that talking back will get him banned? some mod you are sorry, but it wasn't just one mod that had a problem with that poster. he had warnings and chose to ignore them. sarcastic put downs are not 'supportive', which (as i've mentioned to him many times) is the purpose of the site. |
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Post by strawberrysweetie on Feb 21, 2008 21:00:34 GMT -5
A couple of people here should have watched Dr. Phil yesterday. Though, somehow, that probably would have backfired anyway.  Hmm...I guess this thread is too far gone to go back to its original purpose. Is there any way to take care of that? |
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Post by annaa on Feb 21, 2008 22:40:33 GMT -5
...Hmm...I guess this thread is too far gone to go back to its original purpose. Is there any way to take care of that? As I said, it's probably best if we just let this thread fade away.  |
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Post by lennythegiant on Feb 21, 2008 23:12:51 GMT -5
A couple of people here should have watched Dr. Phil yesterday. Though, somehow, that probably would have backfired anyway. Hmm...I guess this thread is too far gone to go back to its original purpose. Is there any way to take care of that? Hmm, I do tune in to that show sometimes. I saw the episode where that dude was obsessed with Star Wars. What exactly was going on in yesterday's episode? |
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Post by Astroruss on Feb 21, 2008 23:39:59 GMT -5
A couple of people here should have watched Dr. Phil yesterday. Though, somehow, that probably would have backfired anyway. Hmm...I guess this thread is too far gone to go back to its original purpose. Is there any way to take care of that? Hmm, I do tune in to that show sometimes. I saw the episode where that dude was obsessed with Star Wars. What exactly was going on in yesterday's episode? It's okay, we can bring this thread back to goodness and cheer. Phone calls chatting a little bit are okay too. Though i detest telephones, getting a call from a nice, sweet girl makes me feel on cloud seven, maybe even close to cloud eight. Oh, and i think calling the next day after the date is perfectly fine. It shows you care and appreciate the other. |
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