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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 20, 2008 14:48:01 GMT -5
I don't know if someone has already said this, but try going to Church. I have to disagree. I dated a church girl(didn't meet her at a church though...no way) and she ended up cheating with like two guys(at the same time) just cause she couldn't wait for me to move to her state. sucked...oh and if nice people are the future..that's a pretty small future, which will lead to quick extinction..again...my opinion. you met one churchgoing flake and now you think everybody in the world that attends church is a flake? that's kind of a stretch isn't it? |
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Post by parpsquid36 on Sept 20, 2008 15:24:53 GMT -5
I have to disagree. I dated a church girl(didn't meet her at a church though...no way) and she ended up cheating with like two guys(at the same time) just cause she couldn't wait for me to move to her state. sucked...oh and if nice people are the future..that's a pretty small future, which will lead to quick extinction..again...my opinion. you met one churchgoing flake and now you think everybody in the world that attends church is a flake? that's kind of a stretch isn't it? You are a moderator right? just ban me...I'm not interested in posting here anymore..thanks. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 20, 2008 16:26:56 GMT -5
you met one churchgoing flake and now you think everybody in the world that attends church is a flake? that's kind of a stretch isn't it? You are a moderator right? just ban me...I'm not interested in posting here anymore..thanks. dude, no need to get upset. i was just wondering if you realized you were coming across kinda bitter and angry. you will need to put that behind you before you can build rewarding relationships. making generalizations about millions of people based on your bitterness over rejection by one woman just seemed a bit off center. but you've hardly done anything banworthy. besides, the administrator is the only one who can ban on this board. |
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Post by gaia on Sept 20, 2008 16:51:17 GMT -5
I don't know if someone has already said this, but try going to Church. I have to disagree. I dated a church girl(didn't meet her at a church though...no way) and she ended up cheating with like two guys(at the same time) just cause she couldn't wait for me to move to her state. sucked...oh and if nice people are the future..that's a pretty small future, which will lead to quick extinction..again...my opinion. You just got unlucky with that girl, which is unfortunate. Don't give up hope... i'm sure you'll have no trouble finding & keeping someone who's likeminded. |
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Post by parpsquid36 on Sept 21, 2008 14:25:00 GMT -5
You are a moderator right? just ban me...I'm not interested in posting here anymore..thanks. dude, no need to get upset. i was just wondering if you realized you were coming across kinda bitter and angry. you will need to put that behind you before you can build rewarding relationships. making generalizations about millions of people based on your bitterness over rejection by one woman just seemed a bit off center. but you've hardly done anything banworthy. besides, the administrator is the only one who can ban on this board. Sorry about that, I've just been very edgy lately. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 21, 2008 14:30:05 GMT -5
dude, no need to get upset. i was just wondering if you realized you were coming across kinda bitter and angry. you will need to put that behind you before you can build rewarding relationships. making generalizations about millions of people based on your bitterness over rejection by one woman just seemed a bit off center. but you've hardly done anything banworthy. besides, the administrator is the only one who can ban on this board. Sorry about that, I've just been very edgy lately. no worries.  |
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Post by Astroruss on Sept 22, 2008 14:41:25 GMT -5
About nice girls, I've found that it's the women who require some time to chip through their shell to be the ones who are worth your time and effort.  For a thing/goal to be considered worthy of time and effort, it must be challenging and engaging towards the participant. Difficult challenges like going to school for years at a time, working your butt off for a tuff deadline at your job or career, building a house or other type of shelter, or courting a woman for months at a time to gain her respect and approval are the activities that better yourself in the process. If something is hard and difficult, then it's probably beneficial to you. Put simply, women with their shields up in public are the ones who worthy of the man's attention. This kind of woman is on guard for the things who are bad for her, so she'll know a good man when she sees one. But she'll also likely make you take the time and effort to get to know her as a person before she'll let you in to see that she's a female too. Humans are persons first, and gender second. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Sept 22, 2008 18:30:14 GMT -5
About nice girls, I've found that it's the women who require some time to chip through their shell to be the ones who are worth your time and effort. For a thing/goal to be considered worthy of time and effort, it must be challenging and engaging towards the participant. Difficult challenges like going to school for years at a time, working your butt off for a tuff deadline at your job or career, building a house or other type of shelter, or courting a woman for months at a time to gain her respect and approval are the activities that better yourself in the process. If something is hard and difficult, then it's probably beneficial to you. Put simply, women with their shields up in public are the ones who worthy of the man's attention. This kind of woman is on guard for the things who are bad for her, so she'll know a good man when she sees one. But she'll also likely make you take the time and effort to get to know her as a person before she'll let you in to see that she's a female too. Humans are persons first, and gender second. thanks for the thumbs up for us shielded types. ;D |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 19:36:10 GMT -5
"Where to meet nice girls?" - Anywhere and everywhere it's just approaching them that is the difficult part. I actually got noticed today by some nice girls, I was outside listening to music on my phone anyway I thought I was on my own so I started singing. Next thing to my surprise and embarrassment these girls walked past they smiled and said "you have the voice of an angel". Whether they were being kind or sarcastic am not sure but at least they noticed me and if I had been more talkative I would have got a conversation going with them. Me being me I just smiled and said thanks, but maybe I should start singing more often and then I will hopefully get people talking to me more often . LOL....How cute. I wish I can sing. I have like no talents whatsoever. I can't play any music instrument. I can't tell jokes and make people laugh. I can't make people like me. I am a loner and a loser.  wait a minute, i thought you had a gf...  |
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Post by gSteve on Oct 19, 2008 14:37:49 GMT -5
i'd like to meet a nice girl  |
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Post by nokotbon25 on Nov 14, 2008 20:55:13 GMT -5
I dont know how to or where to meet nice girls either. I guess nice girls stay in their homes???
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Post by crimeclub on Nov 22, 2008 2:22:17 GMT -5
Barnes and Noble, or really any book store is a good place to meet nice people I've noticed.
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Post by madiocre on Nov 22, 2008 2:44:06 GMT -5
but how do you make friends with someone in a book store?
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Post by airburst on Nov 22, 2008 6:52:47 GMT -5
but how do you make friends with someone in a book store? Maybe ask them a question about something they're reading or looking at? |
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Post by crimeclub on Nov 23, 2008 1:15:54 GMT -5
Book stores are the ideal place to meet people. When you're meeting someone you want to find out what they're interested in, the bookstore conveniently has that very thing written above the section they're in, so you have something to talk about right off the bat. but how do you make friends with someone in a book store? I've gotten a couple dates from the book store. Here's how one of them played out: One day I go to Barnes and Noble. I head straight to the music section as usual, and just my luck, a cute girl is there to, and I notice she's reading a songwriting book, I also write music so I knew this opportunity wouldn't get any better so I had to go for it, or I'd be kicking myself afterwards. I start "looking for a book" a few feet from her, then glance at the book she's reading. "Good book?" She smiles and says yes. Then I ask "Are you just starting out with the music writing thing?" Then the conversation goes from there for a few minutes. Always being really conscious about things I start thinking "crap what if she wants to get this conversation over with and read her book" so I know I need to somehow get this girls number quick, but I have no clue how to transition the conversation into that. So eventually I fumbled my way into a date: things start getting a little rocky, a few closed ended questions happen, which always lead to awkward silences, and it's quickly becoming apparent that the conversation is getting awkward. So I just cut the conversation off and got right to it, "well, I'm not really that great at this kind of thing so... do you want to go do something next week with me, like get something to eat, maybe?" Tone doesn't translate over well when typed, but I actually pulled it off in a charming, I guess "cute" way, so it was a success, I got the date in my own weird way. We went out to eat, and I found out that this girl is kinda weird, she just said weird stuff all the time to where it kinda turned me off, so I didn't persue her anymore after the date. It would probably be a little harder for you since it's typically the guys job to set up a date, so I figure its a matter of being able to show the guy that you're interested. |
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