Post by peterseter3 on Jan 30, 2011 11:14:06 GMT -5
I really don't k now. If you go out, like i've been having, which means just walking downtown or going to the bus stop.. all you meet is outgoing girls that would careless about shy guys. MOreover, you don't even "MEET THEM" youjust see them and they're all with a group of people. they're not interested in you
i'm a nice girl. okay, so that may be self-deemed.. but i volunteer at a hospital, attend church, tutor kids in the inner city, avoid parties and clubs, and do a lot of family oriented stuff (ie. grocery shopping with my mom, babysitting little cousins or nieces and nephews at picnics or family gatherings). i also hang out a lot at libraries...but i am a uni student, so age might be a factor? i meet a ton of nice girls and boys where i'm at.. maybe you could try those places.. good luck.
i'm a nice girl. okay, so that may be self-deemed.. but i volunteer at a hospital, attend church, tutor kids in the inner city, avoid parties and clubs, and do a lot of family oriented stuff (ie. grocery shopping with my mom, babysitting little cousins or nieces and nephews at picnics or family gatherings).
Ok, I OFFICIALLY deem you a nice girl. You had me at "volunteer." ;D
farouche n. fr. 2: marked by shyness and lack of social graces
Post by peterseter3 on May 21, 2011 22:26:02 GMT -5
Definitely I never meet nice girls at work. I mean, they're nice with talkative outgoing guys and they love those guys and are really attracted to them it seems cause they come up to me cause i have some materials for work thatn they need to check,AND it's funny they don't even talk to me. They hate me it seems. And when they go with those loud guys, they start talking so much.
That's mean. anyways. Definitely not at work. Or at leasts not at my work.
You can meet nice girls anywhere, but you sure need to "meet" them. You can get into a conversation and flirt with a girl in a club, a library, next door, in the local swimming pool, at the supermarket, at work/class or online, but in order to find out if she is nice or not, you need to talk with them.
Where you meet is not important, but well, shyness sure makes "meeting" hard for us.^^
"Action may not always bring happiness; but there is no happiness without action." - Benjamin Disraeli
I think there were some great ideas here. Ones that I have tried myself. I had great luck meeting nice girls while volunteering at an animal shelter. I also had a great time playing with the dogs as well. I would suggest finding somewhere you can volunteer that interests you and also has women.
One great thing that has really helped me are dancing lessons. A girl I met at the animal shelter invited me to go dancing and I found I really liked it. Since then I have been taking dancing lessons. The place I go is usually 50% or more single people. They have you rotate partners. So not only do I get to be a better dancer which woman like, I also get practice introducing myself to women and talking to them in a less intimidating format than just walking up to them in a bar. If the lessons are a series over a few weeks you get the opportunity to talk and get to know them more as you see them every week.