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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 15, 2008 22:31:21 GMT -5
so...there's this guy, lol. (where have we heard that one before?) anyways, i really like this guy and i want to ask him out. i'm looking for ideas. how would all you guys like to be asked out? tell me your fantasies! (i didn't mean those! ;D ) thing is, we don't actually know each other all that well. we haven't had much opportunity to talk. i keep running into him when i have my kid with me for one thing, and that's not likely to change...cuz, well, he's almost always with me.  it's starting to get frustrating. my eyes scan for his truck everywhere i go. but seeing him drive by while i'm sitting at a stop sign, like i did tonight, ain't advancing my situation here, lol. so guys, help me. how would you like to be asked out by someone you know but not all that well? thanks in advance!  |
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Post by airburst on Oct 16, 2008 0:03:37 GMT -5
Well you could try putting on a nurses outfit and...oh wait you didn't want to hear those? Seriously though, you could just ask him if he want to get some coffee or maybe you could ask him out to lunch. You said you two don't know each that well, right? Well, both lunch and coffee will give you two the chance to talk a lot and get know each other better. I wouldn't worry about this too much, it's just a first date. |
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Post by skyhint on Oct 16, 2008 0:13:13 GMT -5
Awwwww so cute. You've got a little crush. Uhm, do you have his phone number? Are you going to be able to get time away from your kid to meet with him alone. I don't know how I ask guys out. I just use my intuition.
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 0:26:07 GMT -5
Well you could try putting on a nurses outfit and...oh wait you didn't want to hear those? Seriously though, you could just ask him if he want to get some coffee or maybe you could ask him out to lunch. You said you two don't know each that well, right? Well, both lunch and coffee will give you two the chance to talk a lot and get know each other better. I wouldn't worry about this too much, it's just a first date. but what if he doesn't drink coffee? what if he doesn't eat lunch? lol just kidding...sorta. i was thinkin about askin him if he'd like to grab a beer sometime. but then i thought, but what if he doesn't drink beer? lol |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 0:32:56 GMT -5
Awwwww so cute. You've got a little crush. Uhm, do you have his phone number? Are you going to be able to get time away from your kid to meet with him alone. I don't know how I ask guys out. I just use my intuition. nope. don't have a number where i can call him. i did at one time, but i can't call him there now (long story). when i can make plans in advance, i can get time away from my kid. but i can't justify the expense of taking him to a sitter so i can drive around randomly hours on end trying to catch him somewhere lol. the cost of the gas alone would kill me! |
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Post by rukryM on Oct 16, 2008 11:13:28 GMT -5
but what if he doesn't drink coffee? what if he doesn't eat lunch? lol just kidding...sorta. i was thinkin about askin him if he'd like to grab a beer sometime. but then i thought, but what if he doesn't drink beer? lol Chances are one to a trillion that he doesn't eat lunch. And a little bigger that he doesn't drink coffee nor beer, but just go for it anyway. What do you have to lose? Just ask him if he wants to go out with you for lunch, I know I'd answered yes to a girl who asked me that^^. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 19:47:16 GMT -5
but what if he doesn't drink coffee? what if he doesn't eat lunch? lol just kidding...sorta. i was thinkin about askin him if he'd like to grab a beer sometime. but then i thought, but what if he doesn't drink beer? lol Chances are one to a trillion that he doesn't eat lunch. And a little bigger that he doesn't drink coffee nor beer, but just go for it anyway. What do you have to lose? Just ask him if he wants to go out with you for lunch, I know I'd answered yes to a girl who asked me that^^. well, thanks for the encouragement.  but the rest of you!! what is up? i mean, damn...all the time i've spent givin you guys advice! and now i can't get nothin! come on gimme a break! you must have ideas you could share.  i swear, i'm goin on strike. no more advice from Sweet Pea. hmmph!!  (don't all cheer at once. ) |
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Post by Knox on Oct 16, 2008 21:07:43 GMT -5
its so rare that the woman is the one to make the first move and ask out the guy.... if you just simply do it... im sure he'd be so taken back by it he'd pretty much have to say yes.
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Post by MrNice on Oct 16, 2008 21:52:44 GMT -5
throw something at him (not too heavy)
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Post by MrNice on Oct 16, 2008 21:54:35 GMT -5
if he doesn't get it then throw something heavy
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 21:57:25 GMT -5
its so rare that the woman is the one to make the first move and ask out the guy.... if you just simply do it... im sure he'd be so taken back by it he'd pretty much have to say yes. well, yeah...unless he's not interested in me, lol. maybe first i could ask him, do you drink beer? and if he says no, coffee? and if he says no, do you eat lunch? no? snickers? lol with my luck he's a breathatarian. |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 22:02:12 GMT -5
throw something at him (not too heavy) what, so i should carry around a pillow to throw at him to get his attention? lol |
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 22:03:43 GMT -5
if he doesn't get it then throw something heavy like how heavy are we talkin here? bowling ball heavy? i don't think that would make him like me. |
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Post by MrNice on Oct 16, 2008 22:13:38 GMT -5
you got to think ahead
he won't even know what hit him
then you can drive him to the hospital
it will be very romantic
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Post by Sweet Pea on Oct 16, 2008 22:20:23 GMT -5
you got to think ahead he won't even know what hit him then you can drive him to the hospital it will be very romantic lmao! why didn't i think of that? now that's what i call creativity!  |
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