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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 19:55:38 GMT -5
This is a statement of intent while there may be cases where this happened, its something that is very unlikely to happen - even with you Why wouldn't it happen with me? You can see into my future, can you? I don't understand why you won't allow yourself to believe that there are girls like me out there. I don't understand why it even matters to you - you've already stopped being true to yourself & comprimised who you are in order to get some cheap action. |
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Post by MrNice on Apr 11, 2008 19:55:40 GMT -5
it has got to do with frustration about trying to go after a person that is sending confusing signals
You have created a nice rescue a shy guy fantasy - but in reality there is likely to be lots of frustration without result
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Post by MrNice on Apr 11, 2008 19:56:31 GMT -5
there are tons of girls out there like you
huh?
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 19:57:13 GMT -5
it has got to do with frustration about trying to go after a person that is sending confusing signals You have created a nice rescue a shy guy fantasy - but in reality there is likely to be lots of frustration without result Not with me. I am one of a kind. I'm special. If that individual female confused that member of this forum - I am so sorry. But why are you holding it against me? I don't even know her... |
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 19:58:51 GMT -5
there are tons of girls out there like you You're missing my point completely. Girls like me = girls that are genuinely interested in shy men and WILL end up with a shy guy. Because we are spoiled bitches - what we want is what we get!  Don't worry yourself about it. |
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Post by MrNice on Apr 11, 2008 19:59:39 GMT -5
lol - nice try
just like everyone else
and your intent is the same as that of tons of other girls
no what I am saying is that the guy you go after will confuse you - like this girl was confusing the poster of this forum
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Post by pnoopiepnats on Apr 11, 2008 19:59:52 GMT -5
it has got to do with frustration about trying to go after a person that is sending confusing signals You have created a nice rescue a shy guy fantasy - but in reality there is likely to be lots of frustration without result I'm going to have to agree with the shy guy rescue fantasy. What if he acted like that girl did in the link you posted? just ignored you. I really don't think you would put up with such bad treatment for long and then if you did, you have to ask yourself why you would. It sounds like a recipe for a rather abusive one-sided relationship. |
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 20:10:57 GMT -5
I don't want to hurt your feelings. I'm sparing you - trust me. just like everyone else and your intent is the same as that of tons of other girls Stop lumping me with the rest of them! Seriously, if a guy like you were to overlook me because "i'm just like the rest" he isn't worth my time. Ignorance, at the end of the day, only limits the life of the person who's doing the discriminating/generalising... there could be some great people out there you're missing out on. no what I am saying is that the guy you go after will confuse you - like this girl was confusing the poster of this forum Well then say that, please. *I suppose i'm answering to someone else now as well... lucky me.  To be honest I can't be bothered to read that link, so if you could summarise what happened i'll be glad to answer more accurately. But if I just assume you mean sending confusing signals to the point that it's hurtful - i'd ask them how they felt. If they didn't give me a straight answer, i'd have to come to my own conclusion... (as i've said in my previous example, let's just assume I like the person "that much" so let's assume I stick with them). I'd stick with them and tolerate the shit times because you have to WORK HARD to get to where you want. Good things aren't just handed to you on a silver plate - that includes relationships. Life is a rollercoaster.... A twee nice relationship without any struggle is not only unrealstic (even with outgoing peple), it's pretty boring too. |
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 20:13:53 GMT -5
Finally.. i'm 18. Young. Naieve. Give me a break.
Ten years time i'll be bitter like the rest of you.
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Post by MrNice on Apr 11, 2008 20:33:07 GMT -5
you can't even if you tried
you tried
nice try
yeah, because you gave up on having a serious discussion and moved on to trying to insult me
keep'em coming
well good luck, hopefully you don't injure yourself on the rollercoaster
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 20:45:24 GMT -5
No - I wasn't trying to insult you. And though i'm armed with some nasty comments, there's no point. I'd never want to ("try to") do anything to deliberately hurt you anyway. I was actually saying that towards any guy with your "all girls are the same" mentality. Discrimination/generalisation is never good. Like with any of the "isms" in life. If you want to automatically rule out a certain group of people without talking to them - it's your choice. But you could be missing out on some valueable people. yeah, because you gave up on having a serious discussion and moved on to trying to insult me keep'em coming No, i'm not giving up on a serious discussion. I am not trying to insult you either. I really didn't see how reading that thread was relevant to me, that's all. ..well good luck, hopefully you don't injure yourself on the rollercoaster If I do - it's alright. I'll be a stronger person for it.. just like how things in my past have made the stubborn fighter I am now. 
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Post by theinfiniteabyss84 on Apr 11, 2008 21:11:11 GMT -5
Why is this discussion still happening.  |
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 21:15:03 GMT -5
Why is this discussion still happening. I said at the begininng it should have been taken to PM. Still it's entertaining, isn't it? If not - fuck you. This is a public forum. |
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Post by theinfiniteabyss84 on Apr 11, 2008 21:58:31 GMT -5
Why is this discussion still happening. I said at the begininng it should have been taken to PM. Still it's entertaining, isn't it? If not - fuck you. This is a public forum. Awesome. |
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Post by annaa on Apr 11, 2008 22:09:36 GMT -5
I said at the begininng it should have been taken to PM. Still it's entertaining, isn't it? If not - fuck you. This is a public forum. Awesome. I'm not out for other people's approval. |
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